Posted on 01/07/2024 3:35:33 AM PST by marktwain
WE HAVE COMPLETELY BRED THE SELF-PRESERVATION GENE OUT OF OUR WOMEN.....AND MANY OF OUR MEN.
EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS TRUE-——
EVEN AS SCARY——ALL COPS WILL TELL YOU THAT “DOMESTIC ARGUMENT CALLS” ARE THE MOST DANGEROUS FOR THEM
Straight from the feminist playbook:
1. Kill your boyfriend.
2. Claim it was self-defense after years of abuse.
3. Repeat.
I agree that your mom benefited greatly from having a strong, protective father.
It’s interesting to read your comments about abuse skipping a generation.
I wonder if that has happened in your family partly because children who love their mother and see her abused are determined not to put their own children through that trauma?
I’m pretty sure that’s what has happened. I watched my mom be a weak woman that didn’t stand up to Dad even to protect us. I wasn’t going to be weak. I never hit my daughter because I didn’t want to be like Dad, and she turned out to think hitting was a way to get results. She even hit me once in the kitchen when she was pregnant. My granddaughter is the sweetest person ever! She swears she’ll never be like her mom. None of my siblings are violent. We are all very easy going. We don’t let ourselves be run over or mistreated but we don’t hit people to make a point.
A lot say that violence teaches violence but not in my family. It has done the opposite. After watching our parents, who were married over 60 years BTW, we were determined not to be violent or be run over either.
Sweetie, you should try to heal what is broken in yourself before trying to fix someone else.
Good luck with that.
But the She bear thus accosted rends the peasant tooth and nail/for the female of the species is more deadly than the male’’.- Kipling.
He was probably correct about the bears.
However, he was gravely wrong about many, many things.
Because of abuse during his childhood, he was fervently anti-Christian.
And you thought the potential problem was HIM hitting YOU???
You're lucky he didn't just walk away ...
What you told him was profoundly insulting. Think about the implication.
Not insulting. No man is going to hit me and me stay around for more. I took enough of that off my dad.
He was also catastrophically wrong about who is more deadly.
Very insulting.
The statement includes the implication that “domestic violence” is a reasonable probability.
The heck with that. I would have walked away right then and there. I don’t need some self-admitted hot-head telling me hypocritically not to be a hot-head.
“Right on Target!”
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“..Eve gave Adam the Apple and
He Did Eat of it.”
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We old Divorced have a story and
Hope that no one perished in the
Final chapter.
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Why are Divorces So Expensive?
Why? Because they are worth every penny!!!
OK, since you don’t seem to be very well liked in FR due to your anger issues (probably a wife/kid beater too) along with very poor reading skills and comprehension, let me explain.
I had NO reason to walk away. We were having dinner at his mother’s house one Sunday and he jokingly said that the Bible said he can beat his wife. She winked at me and told him that she’d better never hear he hit me. She also told him that with all this red hair, he might regret it if he did. I assured her that if he ever hit me that I’d just walk away and leave his punishment up to her. That’s why I said it as a joke, but you obviously have no capacity for that.
After the way my dad treated us and my mom when he got stressed or mad, I decided that I would never be treated that way, and I would never treat anybody else that way.
I worked for two years for CPS and saw first-hand what angry, mean parents can do to kids.
We have been married for 40 years. We knew each other for 10 before that. He is 85 now and mostly bedridden. I’m his caretaker and have been for a while. We would have not made that milestone if either of us were violent.
Put some ice on the anger and woman hate. It’s not healthy.
“...And that includes its many subtleties.”
LOL! Reminds me of John Kerry saying we didn’t understand and agree with him because we were ignorant of his “nuances”.
Try the coffee method....
ROFL!!!
Thou shalt not bear false witness against thy neighbor.
Your false accusation speaks very poorly of you.
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