What bothers me about the men who snicker at this is that a boy having sex is (generally) having it with a girl; and a lot of these same men find girls having sex a bad idea - especially if it’s their daughters.
And I don’t think most men would want to know that their wives had slept around as much as they boast that they did themselves in their youths.
This is only embarrassing to the Judge in the minds of people who think all young people sleep around; or that there is something ‘manly’ about it.
Yes, you capture the ironic and nonsensical amusement that people have about adolescent sex! The same people who joke about “virginal” men (there is no such thing) are the same people who scream about pedos and want to hunt down with a shotgun any guy having sex with their teenage daughters.
They disgust me.