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Student Of Racist “Promposal” Apologizes, Quits All School Events, BLM Threatens
The Revoutionary Act ^ | 04/25/18

Posted on 04/25/2018 1:52:48 PM PDT by Liberty7732

The Florida high school student who made a racist sign asking his girlfriend to the prom has issued a profuse apology. His family issued a more profuse apology. But the promposal brouhaha is forcing him to forgo all the rest of his high school activities — a decision made in conjunction with the high school administration.

There will be no prom, no graduation experience or anything else for him. So, quite a lot of consequences and punishment for a racist, but likely just stupid teenage boy stunt to get a girl. Lesson learned, move on, right?

We all know that was never going to happen. This racist promposal is an opportunity for the activists among us, as one of the school’s gun control activists pointed out in our initial story on this.

First, there is going to be plenty of training for the approved way to think about race relations through the school and the school district. Second, the NAACP intends to be involved in that training, or as they term it, “discussions” about race. And now, naturally, Black Lives Matter wants to be involved in creating “uncomfortable” conversations within the school district that, essentially, blame white people.

The high school student made the promposal to his girlfriend with this sign, “If I was black, I’d be picking cotton, but I’m white, so I’m picking u 4 prom?” So yes, racist. Insensitive. Stupid. It’s not clear however that he showed it anyone other than his girlfriend, and then she posted it on Snapchat with heart-eyed emojis, and his world got flushed.

(We’re consciously not naming him as we did not name bra-less girl because we recognize teenagers do dumb things that should not be digitally hung around their necks forever.)

The boy has now issued this apology:

“I want to sincerely apologize if I have offended anyone with the picture going around. That was not my intention. Anyone who knows me or … knows that that’s not how we truly feel. It was a complete joke and it went too far. After reading the texts and Snapchats I truly see how I have offended people and I’m sorry.”

Well that’s a humble apology. The boy’s family then further issued this apology the next day:

“While our son has apologized himself, on behalf of our family, we wish to also express our most sincere apologies for the terrible words used in his ‘promposal.’ We love our son dearly and know that he is a far better person than reflected in this reckless behavior…That said, as loving parents, we also feel compelled to share our own deep regret and serious concern about his actions…As a family, we truly recognize this incident is a very difficult but important life lesson and pledge to do all we can to ensure that nothing like this ever happens again…Certainly, we hope that all of the people and communities who were hurt and offended will forgive our son and family.”

“After numerous familial conversations and lengthy discussions with Riverview High School administrators, we have jointly agreed that our son will not be attending any further school activities or functions, including the Prom or graduation ceremony.” [emphasis added]

Of course none of this is enough for the student gun control activists, the NAACP or BLM. Allowing his apology to diffuse the situation would be the loss of an opportunity to pursue political agendas.

So according to the Sarasota Herald-Tribune, two of the gun control activists that have risen at the school post Parkland issued a statement after the promposal and apology that they claimed to be “on behalf of Riverview’s student body:”

“It is absolutely disheartening that opinions such as these are still present in current generations. It shows that racism is still alive and thriving and that there needs to be a continuation of fighting for equality to rid of this hate once and for all.”

There’s no evidence the boy “hates” anyone, but this is the way leftists talk — including budding young leftists inculcated in the activist mentality.

Meanwhile, the local chapter of BLM also sees an opportunity, and their comments are telling. Black Lives Matter Manasota President Shakira Refos said race discussions in the schools need to be made “uncomfortable” to create change. She said the discussion hides behind terms such as “under-served populations” and “the achievement gap.”

Actually, that phraseology is used to avoid offending minorities and is not talking about racism but about results. At this point, however, there is no win. Refos also said we need to avoid just talking about “meritocracies.”

“People don’t want to talk about racism, because it makes them uncomfortable,” she told the Herald-Tribune. “They’re comfortable talking about gun issues because they can point at other things in their community or their surroundings. But when you start dissecting the root cause of racism and racist behavior, white people don’t want to have that discussion, and that’s why they don’t listen to black kids, because it will open up a discussion that they don’t want to have.” [emphasis added]

To break this down, the BLM leader said we need to talk about race relations in an “uncomfortable” — presumably her uncomfortable way — not judge black people on their merits, and it’s all white people’s fault. “They” — white people are the problem in moving forward. Those are just her words and pretty clear meaning.

In a glowing 2015 profile in the newspaper, Refos was described as “a 30-year-old lesbian born in the Netherlands and devoted to diversity,” and “a stalwart at the Harvey Milk Festival for the past four years and recently birthed a monthly ‘Girlcentric’ night at Ivory Lounge, focused on the LGBTQ community.”

Refos, to be fair, is more than just an activist, she’s also an actual do-er in the community. She’s created several successful marketing events for nonprofits in the region and has been part of mainstream organizations’ marketing teams — at least before she became head of BLM.

All of this explosion of response shows what can happen in this leftist-stoked atmosphere of racial tensions and hyper sensitivity to offense. Meanwhile, the kid who made an insensitive mistake that he has now owned and humbly apologized for, is having his life de-railed indefinitely.


TOPICS: News/Current Events; US: Florida
KEYWORDS: 2ndamendment; banglist; blackkk; blacklivesmatter; browardcounty; cottonpicking; florida; hogg; homosexualagenda; lgbt; localnews; naacp; nra; parkland; prom; racist; scottisrael; secondamendment; shakirarefos; trump
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1 posted on 04/25/2018 1:52:48 PM PDT by Liberty7732
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To: Liberty7732

Thoughtcrime


2 posted on 04/25/2018 1:57:45 PM PDT by Skooz (Gabba Gabba we accept you we accept you one of us Gabba Gabba we accept you we accept you one of us)
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To: Liberty7732
In a glowing 2015 profile in the newspaper, Refos was described as “a 30-year-old lesbian born in the Netherlands and devoted to diversity,” and “a stalwart at the Harvey Milk Festival for the past four years and recently birthed a monthly ‘Girlcentric’ night at Ivory Lounge, focused on the LGBTQ community.”

What the heck does that have to do with anything? All the angry groups are coming out of the woodwork for this one.
3 posted on 04/25/2018 2:04:12 PM PDT by Trillian
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To: Liberty7732

Good Grief, let it go.


4 posted on 04/25/2018 2:05:09 PM PDT by JoSixChip (He is Batman!)
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To: Liberty7732

When is the hanging/electrocution/firing squad scheduled?


5 posted on 04/25/2018 2:11:41 PM PDT by NTHockey (Rules of engagement #1: Take no prisoners. And to the NSA trolls, FU)
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To: NTHockey

Beg for mercy . . . NO MERCY FOR YOU!


6 posted on 04/25/2018 2:31:44 PM PDT by donna (Pray for revival.)
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To: Liberty7732

Does anyone have a link to the actual sign? I’ll bet it didn’t use any language that the black underclass doesn’t already use.


7 posted on 04/25/2018 2:43:29 PM PDT by Company Man (SHALL NOT BE INFRINGED)
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To: Liberty7732
What's the problem? Picking cotton was good honorable work,
preferable to whoring, pimping, and drug dealing.


 

8 posted on 04/25/2018 3:00:09 PM PDT by Governor Dinwiddie (MAGA in the mornin', MAGA in the evenin', MAGA at suppertime . . .)
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To: Company Man

He held a sign that said this:

“If I was black I’d be picking cotton, but I’m white so I’m picking U 4 prom.”

What a dumb ***.


9 posted on 04/25/2018 3:55:09 PM PDT by Engedi
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To: Engedi

It’s a silly groaner, but hey where are the supposed liberals to say “Let’s all be considerate to one another” when a teachable moment comes.

The racial rights people have so overdone their grievances that they have invited a new kind of backlash.


10 posted on 04/25/2018 4:05:43 PM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Tryin' hard to win the No-Bull Prize.)
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To: Governor Dinwiddie

And even rednecks picked cotton. That’s why their necks are red.


11 posted on 04/25/2018 4:06:52 PM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Tryin' hard to win the No-Bull Prize.)
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To: Engedi

Yes, he was a dumb ass.

Do you think the punishment fits the crime?


12 posted on 04/25/2018 4:21:55 PM PDT by Balding_Eagle ( The Great Wall of Trump ---- 100% sealing of the border. Coming soon.)
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To: Liberty7732


13 posted on 04/25/2018 5:33:34 PM PDT by conservative98
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To: Liberty7732

It was not an effing racist sign.


14 posted on 04/25/2018 5:58:28 PM PDT by jimfree (My17 y/o granddaughter continues to have more quality exec experience than an 8 year Obama.)
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To: Liberty7732

I see nothing earth shaking about what this kid has done.


15 posted on 04/25/2018 6:04:53 PM PDT by Gator113 ( ~~Trump 2020~~)
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To: Liberty7732

Maybe they should have a lecture by the author of the Bell Curve.


16 posted on 04/25/2018 6:50:15 PM PDT by 2ndDivisionVet (You cannot invade the mainland US. There'd be a rifle behind every blade of grass.)
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To: jimfree

Absolutely agreed.


17 posted on 04/25/2018 6:50:44 PM PDT by Gator113 ( ~~Trump 2020~~)
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To: Governor Dinwiddie

My father picked cotton as a child. Where do I sign up for reparations?


18 posted on 04/25/2018 6:57:24 PM PDT by Rebelbase (YETI deathwatch, tick, tick, tick......)
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To: Liberty7732
I've got an idea for a show...
19 posted on 04/25/2018 6:58:41 PM PDT by mrsmith (Dumb sluts: Lifeblood of the Media, Backbone of the Democrat/RINO Party!)
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To: Engedi
I am white and Scotch-Irish. My great grandparents deep in the Piney woods of east Texas, you guessed it, picked cotton. His statement is as offensive to whites like me, as it is to blacks. Dumb*** just as you said. Ignorant dumb***.
20 posted on 04/25/2018 7:11:36 PM PDT by Company Man (SHALL NOT BE INFRINGED)
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