...and the instinct we are all equal.
Reality violates the Narrative.
That’s the doctrine of original sin, in fact. We must learn all over again about God, beginning with our most immediate needs and progressing outward, with suffering always part of it due to the now-inherent difficulties.
Still there is the reality of talents and gifts. And that varies by sex and race and other heredity, and viva la differences. Envy can regard these as curses while a godly mind can understand them as blessings. God forbid that any child should be jammed into a mold that isn’t what God desired and planned.