I have a medium-distant relative (not too close, not so far) who is still young enough to be saved but who I think is mentally too far gone for saving. She posts feminist crap on Fakebook every freaking day, and intersperses it with “why am I alone” posts that are both quite honest and revealing regarding her personal situation while at the same time being a strong indication that the stupid is very very strong in her. But can I tell her that? She would hate me forever.
Wow, as Yoda would say” the Stupid is strong with this one”
If the truth were known - given what you related about her, and given your handle in here - she prolly doesn't care much for ya anyway ;-)
Pretty similar situation here. Her name is Nina.