What started as legit come to Jesus of sexual assault has gotten crazy to where all women are victims and it’s now politics
Tell a woman she looks hot or ask her out and you’re harassing her
I had a freeper two weeks ago tell me I should never compliment a woman’s appearance in a work environment
I say eff that sort of logic
It’s stupid
Women have so lost their way
God love em
I just flew back from Chicago tonight....the blonde 40 something stewardess was so hot and leggy and sweet ....man if I was not married and 60 you know....whew...back in my youth
Anyhow...I had my middle boy with me and she kept going on how cute he was ...but you dare not compliment her....you just never know it can be misconstrued and trying to be nice or flirt instead you’re harassing or offending
It’s not fair for young guys I tell ya
Its not politics. The same fire is consuming the Left and the Right.
I’ve always felt that simple human decency is non-negotiable. At least that’s the conclusion our society has now reached.
All the alibis sexual predators have shielded themselves with - the public is no longer buying it.
Not every one does it and in spite of what sexual harassers and assailants would like you to believe.
That’s its all the victims’ fault and they have no responsibility for their behavior. Let them keep telling themselves that - people have had enough.
Naw, you can compliment people in public like that. You can’t compliment at YOUR WORK about women especially under you in stature, I know, and it is kind of stupid, but you can compliment a flight attendant or a clerk somewhere, and it shouldn’t be offensive unless it was a sexual compliment like hot rack or some such. No woman should mind being called good looking, or that is a pretty dress. No mention of “hotness” or what you would like to do to her... ;)
As far as what I am telling my sons about the difference between flirting or kindly hitting on a girl at work, vs harassment is
1) you have to ask her to go somewhere off work premises. Get coffee, see a band, grab a burger, a beer, etc. That is the only thing you can legally ask her.
2) if the answer was pretty negative, that was it. Never ask again.
That about covers it. All the times I was harassed, it was about what they’d like to do to me or calling me a sexy name, etc, and if I asked them to knock it off, they didn’t, that was true harassment. Keep to my rules above and you can ask a girl out or gage her interest in something romantic while not breaking any company rules or mores.
A couple of comments about your post. It is not stupid. It is prudent. In the current environment you are prey. Don't give the enemy ammunition. Also, your comments about the stewardess (really obsolete term) it can easily not be a case of misunderstanding, but a SJW deliberately looking for offense or, if you look affluent, a case of trying to create an incident for fun "justice" and profit.