Step 1 - Revoke the “racist” card.
As long as the left can shut down any opposition to their policies is by accusing a person of “racism” no progress will be made.
Until step 1 is done, there can not be any step 2
“Calling” someone an untrue name doesn’t stop the conversation... Unless the person being called racist allows it to.
And the only way to do that is to stop running away from it. See comment #16.