[HiTech RedNeck]

Well as they say, she’s a crock pot, he’s a microwave oven. Patience is the key.

[Vigilanteman]

Very true, though I'd probably use a blow torch analogy rather than a microwave for some guys. And, yes, patience is the key. And practice, lots and lots of practice which usually involves a strong emotional bond and strong commitment . . . the reason happily married people not only get more, but better quality.