It isn’t hard to figure out.
Men are no longer willing to become work horses in order to attract a female, that only cares about how much money and resources he can provide, for her to live a comfortable life in exchanged for doled-out sex that quickly becomes infrequent and requires more work on his part to get. That’s if it doesn’t stop completely.
What is the base reason for men to even marry to start with? Once the sex dries up, he is still required to work and slave to now provide his “roommate” with a lifestyle she wants or else she will divorce him and take half of what he makes.
So why not keep your money and not have to constantly shove out money for Valentine crap, anniversary gifts, Christmas presents, birthday presents, random surprise flowers, and just get your base fulfillment through porn and date randomly as the mood hits? It doesn’t cost him anything. He gets what he needs and doesn’t have to be tied to someone that will just use sex to control him like so many married guys sadly find themselves realizing long after it is too late.
Men have figured out the game, and are no longer playing.
The man you describe does not put much thought into his choice of a life partner. Some do not peer beyond the Barbie looks and, therefore, miss important clues about character.
Love is selfless and all human beings need Love (true Love)——the Christian ideal is being erased-—and porn reduces people to objects to be used and discarded. It normalizes evil ways to “see” the other and self. It is degrading and dehumanizing-—reduces male/female to sexual objects to be used and discarded....it normalizes that attitude and makes sex meaningless.
This whole porn culture (much like the homosexual Weimar Republic) makes people cynical,and without the ability to trust. It is superficial and dehumanizing——removes Mind/Soul from body.
Males/Females who are true Christians would sacrifice for their spouse and children always. Selfish, unloving people are evil.
“Men have figured out the game, and are no longer playing”
You’re so right about that. However, women too have stopped “playing” as you describe it. They no longer have to depend on men.
That’s why there are no homes for America’s children anymore. There are no more men for them to look up to as a father and a role model. The women who used to take pride in homemaking in every sense of the word now lie to themselves as they trundle their kids off to daycare or school every day and then rush to their real job. There are no more men to make it possible for them to be what they were created to be. It was women’s choice to become something other than what their divine calling equips them to be. Now they wonder why they just don’t feel “fulfilled.”
Yes, men and women have “stopped playing the game”. Now, the sex urge that brings them together is a means to an end, which is just sexual, nothing more. No marriage, no home, no mother or father figure, no stability, no roots, and no dependable knowledge of ancestry is going to be the legacy for the majority of today’s children. Soon, one could be having sex with a sibling or even a parent and have no way of knowing it.
If one leaves out the moral implications for society in general, the real genetic results of such depravity will be unthinkable.