You cant yell at the kid. (emotional abuse)
You cant paddle them. (physical abuse)
You can barely call their parents and expect that to put the fear of Jehovah in kids these days. (How dare you hurt my kid’s self esteem)
Now you have crazy children that have to be handcuffed because there is nothing you can do and the kids are getting more insane. And THAT is seen as extreme.
Someday those kids will be burning down and looting whole neighborhoods. But they will have high self-esteem about it.