They can all it marriage, joining or anything they want but it isn’t and never will be the sacrament of holy marriage or a covenant between the man and woman and Holy Spirit
So get married. You aren’t and will not be
and I as my family will always correct them.
They know that.
Their fight is against God, but not being able to reach Him, they attack us, His witnesses.
Their goal is to get us to accept their “marriages” as the equivalent as our marriages.
We need to continually make the point, it is nothing more than a civil union contracted by the State.
Even if they find some leftist church that will perform the ceremony, it is not a marriage in the eyes of God.
And God will not be mocked.