Well more than just sex, but at least potential family and all that goes with it as well. Sex is supposed to be God’s way of saying “Good job, folks!” when they obey the command to be fruitful and fill the earth. Spiritual it represents a blending of the two persons, as it were to spiritually put Adam’s rib back into Adam. Because of the spiritual blending aspect of sex, the devil can hijack that feature to get people to blend with his spirit instead, while also getting a perceived boost to an inadequate sense of self gender confidence. It works fiendishly well on fallen sinners. Sodomy is, after all, a violent act, and have you met anyone so insidiously vicious as the “pride” people?
We SAY we want family until that first colicky baby keeps me awake half the night and I gott'a go to work at 5 AM.
I was in no way considering a spiritual bonding while contemplating (I wish this reception was OVAH !!) our first moments (hours!) alone together. I was rehearsing every erogenous zone I could remember reading about and what they were supposed to do.
I was anticipating a mellow alcohol glow before our consumation, I fantasized her nakedness.
In short ... I wanted sex with her ... we'll talk about all the rest ... later.