I share your feelings, having been there I did not want mine to go for this government but they did in true Corps fashion and each did three in the sandbox and are now out. I have one left at home and I am trying to encourage him into something else.
I’m glad you understand, I think the military I served in has changed in the last few years and they would be better at not going through with what I did and they have seen my nightmares and it’s not pretty.
thank you and good luck to your boys