I appreciate your writing that. It is a very good input into the Dresden Raid. I totally understand what you are saying. Yes the Germans did not know what total war was until the bombs started teaching them what they had wrought on themselves. Thanks again.
Poland lost 20% of it's population and lost 40% of its territories in the east and was physically moved west to the Oder-Neisse.
Every street in Warsaw has a sign here and there that says "at this spot in xy 1944, Nazis killed x number of Poles"
And the Jews were eliminated from Poland by the Nazis -- now my first encounter with this was Leon Uris' Mila 18. This is not quite true to fact -- many of the American jews and gentiles were quick to criticize a land they had not been to. In contrast Polish Jews like Szpilman (The Piano player) etc. were far more realistic
But to my point, the elimination of one entire section of the population has caused a trauma.
10% of pre-war Poland was Jewish. Everyone had Jewish friends or shopkeepers or dentists or doctors or employers or employees. And suddenly, all of that disappeared. A way of life disappeared
Pre-war Poland had Poles, Lithuanians, Ruthenians (Ukrainians and Belarussians), Tartars, Jews, Armenians etc.
But then the war and Stalin's ethnic shuffling made an artificially "pure" state.