[wardaddy]

My wife will wear something she knows I'm not crazy about if she thinks other women will like it.

For the record....she is not a fashion model....petite....sorta Reece Witherspoon sized

my tallest flame was 5'9" and I'm 6'5"

never really picked em out....it just happened but I probably did lean petite..and they like big guys...I think anyhow

[A CA Guy]

If she is wearing what is in, that is supposed to be a good reflection on you both, despite what you do or do not like.

I may think I like one type, but have come to love some that might look totally different than my supposed ideal.

Bottom line, getting to know a really nice person makes them a lot more attractive than the limitation of your visual ideal.

Someone can say they are attracted to sexy petite dark skinned Latin woman and might easily still end up happily married to a tall white woman who is not petite.

Such is life, such is love.

[Melas]

my tallest flame was 5'9" and I'm 6'5"

Gotcha beat. My tallest flame was 6'6" and yes, she played basketball in college. She was a whopping 17" taller than I am. I finally married a woman who was only 11" taller than I am, and our 15th anniversery is rapidly approaching.