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Baptist Church Sued When Active Homosexual Barred from Wedding Party
LifeSite ^ | March 14, 2006 | Hilary White

Posted on 03/14/2006 6:57:44 PM PST by NYer

SARNIA/LAMBTON, March 14, 2006 (LifeSiteNews.com) - The Observer, the local paper for Sarnia/Lambton Ontario, reports that the pastor of a local church is in hot legal water for his defence of Christian principles.
 
Tamara Bourgeois, 29, and Jerry Condie, 34, were to marry in June 2007 at Sovereign Grace Community Church and have told the Observer that they are considering legal action against Pastor Glenn Tomlinson when he refused to allow an active homosexual to be part of the wedding party.
 
Tomlinson said he believes that allowing an unrepentant homosexual in the ceremony is tantamount to sanctioning homosexuality. "I'm OK with a gay person attending in the congregation. We are all sinners," Tomlinson told The Observer. "But the key to me is that a gay man is standing up in an official capacity. If we allowed that, we'd be sanctioning something in the actual ceremony."
 
Sovereign Grace church bills itself on its website as a church that "believes, teaches, and rejoices in the historic doctrines of Christianity."
 
Allowing a gay man to stand up for the couple would send the "wrong message, "Tomlinson said. "As a Baptist church, we believe that the scripture is God's word, without error."
 
Bourgeois was apparently expecting the pastor of this conservative congregation to be in full agreement with the liberal doctrines of "tolerance" for sin. Bourgeois reacted with indignant astonishment when Tomlinson said yes when she asked him if having a "gay man" in the wedding party would be a problem.
 
"He said it is a problem. I couldn't believe it. I can't be part of a church that feels this way."
 
"Shouldn't the church be about tolerance?" she asked
 
The "tolerance" dogma of liberalism, however, only goes in one direction. Having found another church more to her theological taste - one in agreement with her support of the homosexual political agenda - Bourgeois is vowing to use the courts to persecute Sovereign Grace church for their adherence to Christian doctrine.
 
I plan on taking this all the way. If I have the means for a civil suit, I'll sue for discrimination," she said, "Who attends at a wedding should have no bearing on the wedding itself. It's not like we're asking him to marry us and we're gay."


TOPICS: Canada; Culture/Society
KEYWORDS: baptist; freedomofassociation; gay; homosexual; homosexualagenda; lawsuit; marriage; ontario; wedding
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1 posted on 03/14/2006 6:57:48 PM PST by NYer
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To: NYer

"Shouldn't the church be about tolerance?" she asked

No.


2 posted on 03/14/2006 6:58:59 PM PST by BenLurkin (O beautiful for patriot dream - that sees beyond the years)
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3 posted on 03/14/2006 6:59:30 PM PST by NYer (Discover the beauty of the Eastern Catholic Churches - freepmail me for more information.)
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But the key to me is that a gay man is standing up in an official capacity.

Standing in the wedding party is an official capacity? Huh?

4 posted on 03/14/2006 6:59:55 PM PST by Petronski (I love Cyborg!)
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To: BenLurkin

"Tolerance" is a one-way street to gay activists. They only care about tolerance when it works in their favor. Sheer hypocrites.


5 posted on 03/14/2006 7:01:10 PM PST by Heartofsong83
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To: NYer
If we allowed that, we'd be sanctioning something in the actual ceremony.

Does this guy also check to see that all the bridesmaids are indeed "maidens?"

6 posted on 03/14/2006 7:01:25 PM PST by Corin Stormhands (http://www.cafepress.com/liberalitees - Because they're too fun not to mock!)
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To: BenLurkin

7 posted on 03/14/2006 7:01:33 PM PST by BenLurkin (O beautiful for patriot dream - that sees beyond the years)
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To: NYer

Why did she ask him?


8 posted on 03/14/2006 7:02:27 PM PST by CindyDawg
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I couldn't believe it. I can't be part of a church that feels this way."

She was obviously a regular on Sundays. She found a new church - that should be the end of the story.
9 posted on 03/14/2006 7:02:38 PM PST by andyk (Go Matt Kenseth!)
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To: andyk

Probably some United Church that is struggling to survive...


10 posted on 03/14/2006 7:03:04 PM PST by Heartofsong83
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To: andyk

I don't know about there but here preachers don't have to marry on demand.


11 posted on 03/14/2006 7:05:00 PM PST by CindyDawg
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To: Corin Stormhands
Does this guy also check to see that all the bridesmaids are indeed "maidens?"

He didn't check anything. The bride to be specifically asked him if it would be a problem to have a homosexual man at the service. She was obviously looking for trouble, IMHO. If she hadn't asked, nothing would have happened.
12 posted on 03/14/2006 7:05:06 PM PST by andyk (Go Matt Kenseth!)
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"Who attends at a wedding should have no bearing on the wedding itself.

Ahhhh...so they are just there for the photos...

13 posted on 03/14/2006 7:05:14 PM PST by Onelifetogive (* Sarcasm tag ALWAYS required. For some FReepers, sarcasm can NEVER be obvious enough.)
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To: andyk
She was obviously looking for trouble, IMHO.

I don't read it that way at all.

14 posted on 03/14/2006 7:06:00 PM PST by Petronski (I love Cyborg!)
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I "do"


15 posted on 03/14/2006 7:06:38 PM PST by CindyDawg
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To: CindyDawg
I don't know about there but here preachers don't have to marry on demand.

Exactly. If this happened at a civil ceremony, I could see her point. But, it's a church! Obviously they should have control over the weddings that occur on their property. I feel silly for even having to say that!
16 posted on 03/14/2006 7:06:44 PM PST by andyk (Go Matt Kenseth!)
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To: NYer

Wow. I remember when I got married, I asked the priest if it was ok for me to wear a strapless wedding dress, since we are in a house of God and I didn't want to be disrespectful.

He said, in a lilting accent, "As long as your breasts aren't hanging out of your dress, my dear!"

Anyway, you'd think these people would have more respect for their own religion!


17 posted on 03/14/2006 7:08:33 PM PST by BamaGirl (The Framers Rule!)
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To: CindyDawg

As andyk said, this is all a matter of our humble opinions. I don't want an argument. I just see it differently.


18 posted on 03/14/2006 7:08:35 PM PST by Petronski (I love Cyborg!)
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To: NYer

I think being in a wedding is an inalienable right, isn't it?


19 posted on 03/14/2006 7:08:36 PM PST by MichiganConservative (Government IS the problem.)
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To: andyk
If she hadn't asked, nothing would have happened.

Probably so.

20 posted on 03/14/2006 7:09:11 PM PST by Corin Stormhands (http://www.cafepress.com/liberalitees - Because they're too fun not to mock!)
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