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Why European women are turning to Islam
The Christian Science Monitor ^ | December 27, 2005 | Peter Ford

Posted on 12/26/2005 6:41:01 PM PST by jailbird

 
Why European women are turning to Islam

By Peter Ford | Staff writer of The Christian Science Monitor

PARIS – Mary Fallot looks as unlike a terrorist suspect as one could possibly imagine: a petite and demure white Frenchwoman chatting with friends on a cell-phone, indistinguishable from any other young woman in the café where she sits sipping coffee.

And that is exactly why European antiterrorist authorities have their eyes on thousands like her across the continent.

(Photograph)
NO, LISTEN: When Mary Fallot converted, her surprised co-workers asked if she had a Muslim boyfriend. Actually, she explained, she was drawn to Islam by the answers it provided.
PETER FORD

Ms. Fallot is a recent convert to Islam. In the eyes of the police, that makes her potentially dangerous.

The death of Muriel Degauque, a Belgian convert who blew herself up in a suicide attack on US troops in Iraq last month, has drawn fresh attention to the rising number of Islamic converts in Europe, most of them women.

"The phenomenon is booming, and it worries us," the head of the French domestic intelligence agency, Pascal Mailhos, told the Paris-based newspaper Le Monde in a recent interview. "But we must absolutely avoid lumping everyone together."

The difficulty, security experts explain, is that while the police may be alert to possible threats from young men of Middle Eastern origin, they are more relaxed about white European women. Terrorists can use converts who "have added operational benefits in very tight security situations" where they might not attract attention, says Magnus Ranstorp, a terrorism expert at the Swedish National Defense College in Stockholm.

Ms. Fallot, who converted to Islam three years ago after asking herself spiritual questions to which she found no answers in her childhood Catholicism, says she finds the suspicion her new religion attracts "wounding." "For me," she adds, "Islam is a message of love, of tolerance and peace."

It is a message that appeals to more and more Europeans as curiosity about Islam has grown since 9/11, say both Muslim and non-Muslim researchers. Although there are no precise figures, observers who monitor Europe's Muslim population estimate that several thousand men and women convert each year.

Only a fraction of converts are attracted to radical strands of Islam, they point out, and even fewer are drawn into violence. A handful have been convicted of terrorist offenses, such as Richard Reid, the "shoe bomber" and American John Walker Lindh, who was captured in Afghanistan.

Admittedly patchy research suggests that more women than men convert, experts say, but that - contrary to popular perception - only a minority do so in order to marry Muslim men.

"That used to be the most common way, but recently more [women] are coming out of conviction," says Haifa Jawad, who teaches at Birmingham University in Britain. Though non-Muslim men must convert in order to marry a Muslim woman, she points out, the opposite is not true.

Fallot laughs when she is asked whether her love life had anything to do with her decision. "When I told my colleagues at work that I had converted, their first reaction was to ask whether I had a Muslim boyfriend," she recalls. "They couldn't believe I had done it of my own free will."

In fact, she explains, she liked the way "Islam demands a closeness to God. Islam is simpler, more rigorous, and it's easier because it is explicit. I was looking for a framework; man needs rules and behavior to follow. Christianity did not give me the same reference points."

Those reasons reflect many female converts' thinking, say experts who have studied the phenomenon. "A lot of women are reacting to the moral uncertainties of Western society," says Dr. Jawad. "They like the sense of belonging and caring and sharing that Islam offers."

Others are attracted by "a certain idea of womanhood and manhood that Islam offers," suggests Karin van Nieuwkerk, who has studied Dutch women converts. "There is more space for family and motherhood in Islam, and women are not sex objects."

At the same time, argues Sarah Joseph, an English convert who founded "Emel," a Muslim lifestyle magazine, "the idea that all women converts are looking for a nice cocooned lifestyle away from the excesses of Western feminism is not exactly accurate."

Some converts give their decision a political meaning, says Stefano Allievi, a professor at Padua University in Italy. "Islam offers a spiritualization of politics, the idea of a sacred order," he says. "But that is a very masculine way to understand the world" and rarely appeals to women, he adds.

After making their decision, some converts take things slowly, adopting Muslim customs bit by bit: Fallot, for example, does not yet feel ready to wear a head scarf, though she is wearing longer and looser clothes than she used to.

Others jump right in, eager for the exoticism of a new religion, and become much more pious than fellow mosque-goers who were born into Islam. Such converts, taking an absolutist approach, appear to be the ones most easily led into extremism.

The early stages of a convert's discovery of Islam "can be quite a sensitive time," says Batool al-Toma, who runs the "New Muslims" program at the Islamic Foundation in Leicester, England.

"You are not confident of your knowledge, you are a newcomer, and you could be prey to a lot of different people either acting individually or as members of an organization," Ms. Al-Toma explains. A few converts feel "such a huge desire to fit in and be accepted that they are ready to do just about anything," she says.

"New converts feel they have to prove themselves," adds Dr. Ranstorp. "Those who seek more extreme ways of proving themselves can become extraordinarily easy prey to manipulation."

At the same time, says al-Toma, converts seeking respite in Islam from a troubled past - such as Degauque, who had reportedly drifted in and out of drugs and jobs before converting to Islam - might be persuaded that such an "ultimate action" as a suicide bomb attack offered an opportunity for salvation and forgiveness.

"The saddest conclusion" al-Toma draws from Degauque's death in Iraq is that "a woman who set out on the road to inner peace became a victim of people who set out to use and abuse her."
 


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Extended News; Foreign Affairs; War on Terror
KEYWORDS: 2fewmenineurope; becauseturbansdirty; convert; dhimmitude; europeanmuslims; islam; muslimwomen; myturbanisdirty; religion; religionofslavery; whywomenshouldntvote
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To: nmh
The girl really doesn't have a clue. Clearly she doesn't understand Christianity. At the very least the Ten Commandments would be a good starting point for her ...

Actually, maybe she does...

She stated she was a Catholic prior to becoming a muzlim...

Back in the early 70's, I 'lived' with a girl that was Catholic...We'd get drunked up on the weekends and she would go to church on Sunday...I went with her one time...

Didn't understand much of anything since most of it was in Latin...Hey, what a beautiful building tho...

Another time we went to some event at the church...Roulette tables, gambling of all sorts...Lots of folks getting drunk on beer...I was set back a little seeing a priest with a beer in one hand and a smoke in the other...It was the same atmosphere, same crowd I partied with at the bar the night before...

I can understand the confusion of this you girl looking for Spiritual meaning in her life...

121 posted on 12/26/2005 8:46:25 PM PST by Iscool (Start your own revolution by voting for the candidates the media (and gov't) tells you cannot win.)
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To: Pyro7480
It does go to show you that what passes for Catholicism in much of the West is insufficiently rigorous, theologically and spiritually speaking, to hold people's attention.

She would probably have found traditional Catholicism more spiritually fulfilling, but was probably never exposed to it.

122 posted on 12/26/2005 8:48:01 PM PST by B Knotts (http://blog.slappy.org <- my Catholic blog)
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To: Revolting cat!; rlmorel
Oh come on, she seemed like a pleasant enough girl way back when.

In retrospect, you might be able [now] to detect that she was more than a little full of herself, but I thought she was kinda cute back in the day:


123 posted on 12/26/2005 8:53:51 PM PST by jailbird
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To: Jim Noble; KayEyeDoubleDee
Women always go to the conqueror. Always. That's why conquest is such a huge factor in world history.

The truth rears its ugly head.

Ouch.

124 posted on 12/26/2005 8:57:10 PM PST by jailbird
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To: jailbird

LOL...you may be right, but...it is like someone who drank too much vodka and was violently sick for three days.

No way you can convince them that vodka EVER tasted good...:)


125 posted on 12/26/2005 8:58:26 PM PST by rlmorel ("Innocence seldom utters outraged shrieks. Guilt does." Whittaker Chambers)
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To: jailbird
As you say, but then, photographed at just a right angle (not this, obviously), so was Lulu.


126 posted on 12/26/2005 8:59:56 PM PST by Revolting cat! ("In the end, nothing explains anything.")
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To: jailbird
----Ms. Fallot , all I can say is CYA
127 posted on 12/26/2005 9:06:51 PM PST by WasDougsLamb (I refuse to have a battle of wits with an unarmed man)
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To: nmh

128 posted on 12/26/2005 9:10:34 PM PST by timestax
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To: confederate_infidel

I am talking about EUROPEAN Prots.


129 posted on 12/26/2005 9:11:26 PM PST by rwfromkansas (http://www.xanga.com/rwfromkansas)
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To: xrp
Only a truly held faith can resist another truly held faith. Ravi Zacharias makes the point and it's application to America come alive with his razor syllogisms.

130 posted on 12/26/2005 9:18:54 PM PST by William Terrell (Individuals can exist without government but government can't exist without individuals.)
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To: gaijin

gaijin - you are really crude.


131 posted on 12/26/2005 9:19:55 PM PST by jackibutterfly
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To: jackibutterfly

Thanks. I had to work on it a bit.


132 posted on 12/26/2005 9:20:58 PM PST by gaijin
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To: jailbird

re: "For me," she adds, "Islam is a message of love, of tolerance and peace."

She then went on to ask a nearby companion "Does this bomb belt make my butt look big? Tell me the truth."


133 posted on 12/26/2005 9:23:08 PM PST by jwpjr
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To: A knight without armor
Reminds me of the saying: If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything.

Sounds like GKC to me.

134 posted on 12/26/2005 9:24:50 PM PST by grey_whiskers (The opinions are solely those of the author and are subject to change without notice.)
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To: John Williams
As the European menfolk show themselves more and more incapable of protecting their womenfolk, the women are gonna look elsewhere for men who will do otherwise -- basically an "alpha male" to replace the European "beta man".

Sorry, but Betaman is Korean.

8)

135 posted on 12/26/2005 9:25:07 PM PST by LibertarianInExile (Freedom isn't free--no, there's a hefty f'in fee--and if ya don't throw in your buck-o-5, who will?)
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To: jailbird
This must be an ultra secret DST French Intelligence project aimed at infiltrating the Muslim world within France, after the horrific weeks of rioting and burning they witnessed just recently - dangling hot young French muslim-convert chicks, so that the millions of Algerian, Tunisian, and Moroccan men in France will trust them, take them into their homes and lives, and marry them.
136 posted on 12/26/2005 9:26:20 PM PST by SECRET ASIAN MAN
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To: jailbird
So, uh, where's her burka?
138 posted on 12/26/2005 9:36:09 PM PST by decal (Mother Nature and Real Life are conservatives; the Progs have never figured this out.)
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To: decal

bttt


139 posted on 12/26/2005 9:38:27 PM PST by timestax
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To: MarneyK

I disagree. Streisand back in the day was somewhat attractive in the way that almost any young woman might be attractive, at best. I tried to watch "The Main Event" on AMC (?) today, which was sort of back in the day I think, and was repulsed. The love scenes with Ryan O'Neal were totally implausible. I tried to tough my way through it to show how steely I can be, but was unable. I ended up gouging my eyes out, sadly, because I couldn't reach the remote in time.

She has a nice singing voice because that schnoz resonates like a lute, I would guess.


140 posted on 12/26/2005 9:41:31 PM PST by caspera
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