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Why European women are turning to Islam
The Christian Science Monitor ^ | December 27, 2005 | Peter Ford

Posted on 12/26/2005 6:41:01 PM PST by jailbird

 
Why European women are turning to Islam

By Peter Ford | Staff writer of The Christian Science Monitor

PARIS – Mary Fallot looks as unlike a terrorist suspect as one could possibly imagine: a petite and demure white Frenchwoman chatting with friends on a cell-phone, indistinguishable from any other young woman in the café where she sits sipping coffee.

And that is exactly why European antiterrorist authorities have their eyes on thousands like her across the continent.

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NO, LISTEN: When Mary Fallot converted, her surprised co-workers asked if she had a Muslim boyfriend. Actually, she explained, she was drawn to Islam by the answers it provided.
PETER FORD

Ms. Fallot is a recent convert to Islam. In the eyes of the police, that makes her potentially dangerous.

The death of Muriel Degauque, a Belgian convert who blew herself up in a suicide attack on US troops in Iraq last month, has drawn fresh attention to the rising number of Islamic converts in Europe, most of them women.

"The phenomenon is booming, and it worries us," the head of the French domestic intelligence agency, Pascal Mailhos, told the Paris-based newspaper Le Monde in a recent interview. "But we must absolutely avoid lumping everyone together."

The difficulty, security experts explain, is that while the police may be alert to possible threats from young men of Middle Eastern origin, they are more relaxed about white European women. Terrorists can use converts who "have added operational benefits in very tight security situations" where they might not attract attention, says Magnus Ranstorp, a terrorism expert at the Swedish National Defense College in Stockholm.

Ms. Fallot, who converted to Islam three years ago after asking herself spiritual questions to which she found no answers in her childhood Catholicism, says she finds the suspicion her new religion attracts "wounding." "For me," she adds, "Islam is a message of love, of tolerance and peace."

It is a message that appeals to more and more Europeans as curiosity about Islam has grown since 9/11, say both Muslim and non-Muslim researchers. Although there are no precise figures, observers who monitor Europe's Muslim population estimate that several thousand men and women convert each year.

Only a fraction of converts are attracted to radical strands of Islam, they point out, and even fewer are drawn into violence. A handful have been convicted of terrorist offenses, such as Richard Reid, the "shoe bomber" and American John Walker Lindh, who was captured in Afghanistan.

Admittedly patchy research suggests that more women than men convert, experts say, but that - contrary to popular perception - only a minority do so in order to marry Muslim men.

"That used to be the most common way, but recently more [women] are coming out of conviction," says Haifa Jawad, who teaches at Birmingham University in Britain. Though non-Muslim men must convert in order to marry a Muslim woman, she points out, the opposite is not true.

Fallot laughs when she is asked whether her love life had anything to do with her decision. "When I told my colleagues at work that I had converted, their first reaction was to ask whether I had a Muslim boyfriend," she recalls. "They couldn't believe I had done it of my own free will."

In fact, she explains, she liked the way "Islam demands a closeness to God. Islam is simpler, more rigorous, and it's easier because it is explicit. I was looking for a framework; man needs rules and behavior to follow. Christianity did not give me the same reference points."

Those reasons reflect many female converts' thinking, say experts who have studied the phenomenon. "A lot of women are reacting to the moral uncertainties of Western society," says Dr. Jawad. "They like the sense of belonging and caring and sharing that Islam offers."

Others are attracted by "a certain idea of womanhood and manhood that Islam offers," suggests Karin van Nieuwkerk, who has studied Dutch women converts. "There is more space for family and motherhood in Islam, and women are not sex objects."

At the same time, argues Sarah Joseph, an English convert who founded "Emel," a Muslim lifestyle magazine, "the idea that all women converts are looking for a nice cocooned lifestyle away from the excesses of Western feminism is not exactly accurate."

Some converts give their decision a political meaning, says Stefano Allievi, a professor at Padua University in Italy. "Islam offers a spiritualization of politics, the idea of a sacred order," he says. "But that is a very masculine way to understand the world" and rarely appeals to women, he adds.

After making their decision, some converts take things slowly, adopting Muslim customs bit by bit: Fallot, for example, does not yet feel ready to wear a head scarf, though she is wearing longer and looser clothes than she used to.

Others jump right in, eager for the exoticism of a new religion, and become much more pious than fellow mosque-goers who were born into Islam. Such converts, taking an absolutist approach, appear to be the ones most easily led into extremism.

The early stages of a convert's discovery of Islam "can be quite a sensitive time," says Batool al-Toma, who runs the "New Muslims" program at the Islamic Foundation in Leicester, England.

"You are not confident of your knowledge, you are a newcomer, and you could be prey to a lot of different people either acting individually or as members of an organization," Ms. Al-Toma explains. A few converts feel "such a huge desire to fit in and be accepted that they are ready to do just about anything," she says.

"New converts feel they have to prove themselves," adds Dr. Ranstorp. "Those who seek more extreme ways of proving themselves can become extraordinarily easy prey to manipulation."

At the same time, says al-Toma, converts seeking respite in Islam from a troubled past - such as Degauque, who had reportedly drifted in and out of drugs and jobs before converting to Islam - might be persuaded that such an "ultimate action" as a suicide bomb attack offered an opportunity for salvation and forgiveness.

"The saddest conclusion" al-Toma draws from Degauque's death in Iraq is that "a woman who set out on the road to inner peace became a victim of people who set out to use and abuse her."
 


TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Extended News; Foreign Affairs; War on Terror
KEYWORDS: 2fewmenineurope; becauseturbansdirty; convert; dhimmitude; europeanmuslims; islam; muslimwomen; myturbanisdirty; religion; religionofslavery; whywomenshouldntvote
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1 posted on 12/26/2005 6:41:03 PM PST by jailbird
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To: jailbird
"and women are not sex objects"

...OHHHHH! So all those guys who want "72 virgins" just want a lot of good conversation????

2 posted on 12/26/2005 6:43:17 PM PST by paulat
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To: jailbird
"For me," she adds, "Islam is a message of love, of tolerance and peace."

And how much of that delusion is the product of the secular media preaching its fantasies about the 'religion of peace'?

My wife's siblings just got me the book Sword of the Prophet for Christmas. I hope the facts it documents filters down to the media and the masses before too long.

3 posted on 12/26/2005 6:43:45 PM PST by Liberty1970
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To: jailbird

European women really want to join the Culture of Rape???


4 posted on 12/26/2005 6:44:11 PM PST by Chairman Fred (@mousiedung.commie)
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To: jailbird

The French culture is history ...


5 posted on 12/26/2005 6:44:43 PM PST by TexGuy
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To: jailbird

Plummeting IQs?


6 posted on 12/26/2005 6:46:12 PM PST by cripplecreek (Never a minigun handy when you need one.)
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To: jailbird
Sacramento, CA has an unusual number of such female, white converts. They have one thing in common, usually:

They`re usually hideously fat.

They feel some measure of rejection from mainstream US culture, and in the midst of folks who feel similarly, they get a warm reception. Partly for visa reasons, they soon find an apparently loving mate. Later, they find the very loose clothing accomodates their hideous figures.

Just telling it like it is...

7 posted on 12/26/2005 6:47:01 PM PST by gaijin
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To: jailbird
This is what [Western] Europe gets for driving Christianity underground.

I hope we disable or destroy the French nukes within the next 5 years!

8 posted on 12/26/2005 6:47:31 PM PST by xrp
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To: jailbird

France is weak because it is secular and atheistic in character; other 'religions' are more than happy to fill the void. Some here would have us become another France.


9 posted on 12/26/2005 6:48:02 PM PST by He Rides A White Horse (unite)
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To: jailbird
Why European women are turning to Islam

Because European men are sans gonads?

10 posted on 12/26/2005 6:48:02 PM PST by Thumper1960 ("There is no 'tolerance', there are only changing fashions in intolerance." - 'The Western Standard')
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To: Thumper1960

It's sad when women who should know better go willingly into a culture notorious for systematic degredation and abuse of females.


11 posted on 12/26/2005 6:49:38 PM PST by coydog
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To: jailbird
"Christianity did not give me the same reference points."

St. John of Damascus said that Islam was God's judgment on an unfaithful Church.

With homoerotic Bishop Robinson, etc...plus ca change, plus ce le meme chose.

12 posted on 12/26/2005 6:49:44 PM PST by lightman (The Office of the Keys should be exercised as some ministry needs to be exorcised.)
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To: jailbird
Why European women are turning to Islam

Because there are few European men with backbones anymore.

In fact, she explains, she liked the way "Islam demands a closeness to God. Islam is simpler, more rigorous, and it's easier because it is explicit. I was looking for a framework; man needs rules and behavior to follow. Christianity did not give me the same reference points."

It's a shame she never really looked at Christianity. She was most probably following european Christianity lite which has only a vague resemblence to the real thing.

It amazes me that people who attend church once a year, never tell anyone about Jesus, become intoxicated on drugs, are sexually promiscuous and swear like a drunken sailor (among other nice habits) claim to be Christian.

13 posted on 12/26/2005 6:51:07 PM PST by John O (God Save America (Please))
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To: bobdsmith; VadeRetro; Stultis; Dimensio

This is America of the future if you have your way.


14 posted on 12/26/2005 6:51:24 PM PST by He Rides A White Horse (unite)
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To: jailbird
It is a message that appeals to more and more Europeans as curiosity about Islam has grown since 9/11, say both Muslim and non-Muslim researchers.

I wonder how many of these converts hated the U.S. prior to 9/11 and decided to convert after the attack ? The enemy of my enemy.............

15 posted on 12/26/2005 6:51:26 PM PST by oldbrowser (Release the Barrett Report)
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To: KayEyeDoubleDee
For me, this was the money quote:
In fact, she explains, she liked the way "Islam demands a closeness to God. Islam is simpler, more rigorous, and it's easier because it is explicit. I was looking for a framework; man needs rules and behavior to follow. Christianity did not give me the same reference points."
I guess no one ever bothered to tell her about:
Matthew
Mark
Luke
John
Or even just:
Sermon on the Mount, I
Sermon on the Mount, II
Sermon on the Mount, III
About as "simple", "rigorous" and "explicit" a "framework" for "rules" and "behavior" as one could possibly imagine. Or hope for.
16 posted on 12/26/2005 6:51:37 PM PST by jailbird
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To: jailbird
"For me," she adds, "Islam is a message of love, of tolerance and peace."

HUH?

What drugs is she taking?
9/11 ring a bell?
Be headings are now a message of love, tolerance and peace?

Good grief!
17 posted on 12/26/2005 6:51:37 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people believe in Intelligent Design (God))
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To: coydog
I'll give "Mary" the benefit of the doubt.

Maybe she actually likes to be slapped around and gang-raped every so often. If not, perhaps she can make it to a church and find sanctuary....if France, and Europe, has any left by that time.

18 posted on 12/26/2005 6:52:46 PM PST by Thumper1960 ("There is no 'tolerance', there are only changing fashions in intolerance." - 'The Western Standard')
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To: paulat

Women ARE sex objects.... and so are men for that matter.

The number 2 biological imperative for all animal species, behind raw survival, is reproduction.


19 posted on 12/26/2005 6:52:49 PM PST by clee1 (We use 43 muscles to frown, 17 to smile, and 2 to pull a trigger. I'm lazy and I'm tired of smiling.)
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To: jailbird
The girl really doesn't have a clue.

Clearly she doesn't understand Christianity.

At the very least the Ten Commandments would be a good starting point for her ... .
20 posted on 12/26/2005 6:53:16 PM PST by nmh (Intelligent people believe in Intelligent Design (God))
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