Posted on 12/23/2004 4:43:46 PM PST by mumzie
I'm Offended That You're Offended - Merry Christmas Anyway!
I'm on a "Merry Christmas" mission and I'm in full throttle. My little yellow VW Beetle has turned into a Christmas billboard with Merry Christmas written across the back window. Yes, I've decided to trek off to work everyday on the public highways with a message that seems to offend people.
At stop lights, I even turn my music up a little louder, and to top it off, I sing along with it. Don't I know that stopping at a red light to roll my windows down only to share the joy of Christmas carols on public streets is a No-No? Don't I fear the Christmas Gestapo and those who would have me remove the written message from my car?
I'm sorry folks, but the only person I'm concerned about "offending" during this Christmas season is the Lord himself. LEAVE THAT MANGER ALONE! We've allowed the Baby Jesus to be kicked out of His lowly manger, and those offended by Christmas are still not happy. I refuse to let this happen. I'm going to do my part to make sure "Merry Christmas" doesn't become extinct. Because like it or not, if the believers in Christmas don't take a stand now, it's gone forever.
Listen folks, the Christian community has been underestimated before; we will have to show ourselves again. I walked into a Wendy's Restaurant the other day and was rather exuberant with my "Merry Christmas" greeting to the manager. He didn't have much of a response and I said, "Where's your Christmas spirit?" He said, "We're not allowed to use the words "Merry Christmas" when greeting customers. We can only say "Happy Holiday."
This morning I grabbed a quick breakfast at a Whataburger Restaurant. I noticed there wasn't a single decoration in the store. I asked the manager why they weren't decorated for Christmas. He told me the corporate headquarters decided not to send any decorations to any of their stores, and he didn't know why.
After I heard about all the Macy's and Federated Stores taking down their Merry Christmas signs, the Target stores not allowing the Salvation Army to "Ring the Christmas bells," and the many incidents of children, choirs, and bands not allowed to play or sing Christmas carols, I realized it was happening right here in my own little Texas town. How can this be? Not Texas!
We do, however, have a store, Hobby Lobby, that plays nothing but Christmas carols during the season. On Christmas Day they run a full page ad in our local newspaper. That ad is not to promote the store, but uses the entire page to tell the story of Jesus' birth. Now that's taking a stand. We need to thank them.
When I saw a news report the other evening of children being taught new words to a song we've sung for years - "We Wish You a Merry Christmas" - I was saddened to hear "We Wish You a Splendid Holiday." I know now that it's just a matter of time that the "Merry Christmas" greetings will be gone. Look around your town. Notice the "Holiday" greetings and not "Christmas." It's happening right before our very eyes.
Start singing the songs; go down the streets of America singing to your heart's content. Get some of those wash-off markers that these kids use to write on their car windows when they're rooting for their hometown football team. It's easy to do, and if a torrential rain washes it off, write it on there again. We've got to get this message out. "Go Tell It On the Mountain . . . that Jesus Christ is Born." Sing it, speak it, be a billboard for our Lord.
The story of this "Baby Jesus" alone has brought about more goodwill at this time of year than any other day we celebrate. How can we sit back and allow Him to be snuffed out of our lives? Is it Jesus, or is it His followers that the "offended" don't like? What kind of revulsion galvanizes one to campaign so vehemently against the mere mention of His name, the mere singing of a carol, or the mere visual of a sign that says "Merry Christmas?"
I can listen to my own boss at work use some of the vilest words and follow up with, "Excuse my French." I may cringe inside at his damning of God's name, but I tolerate it. So if you don't like me wishing you a "Merry Christmas," I'll say, "Excuse my joy." You may cringe that I celebrate the birth of Jesus, but just tolerate it.
I cannot be concerned that "Merry Christmas" offends you. If I'm not careful, the day will come when saying I'm a Christian will offend you. I'm offended that you're offended. How about that?
When we get to a point that we can no longer take part in a tradition we hold dear, we have no choice; we either defend that tradition or we give it up to those who say NO. That's it . . . period. So, which will it be? I'm not giving up my "Merry Christmas" joy to anyone. If I know of someone that celebrates another holiday during this time of year, I will be glad to wish them whatever holiday they want. Just tell me what it is and I'll shout it to the world and wish you a grand celebration.
Just give me Christmas. To you merchants: Stop being so hypocritical and "filling your tills" on the back of Jesus! Who do you think is the symbol of giving at this time of year? It was the wise men bringing gifts to the newborn Christ-child.
You want your coffers full, but have ordered your employees to take down all the Merry Christmas signs. If that's the case, I'll buy gifts at a place that understands my joy. If you're worried about offending someone, you just did. The most recent Newsweek survey shows that 82% of Americans believe that Jesus is the Son of God. So, in trying not to offend a few, you've offended many.
It's okay to jump into the "Merry Christmas" spirit when it fills your cash register, but let's call it something else . . . and don't stop giving . . . and don't stop buying. . . we'll just change the name and you'll never know the difference.
I know the difference and I'm feeling it greatly. It's hard not to be aware that townships across our country have actually banned the singing of Christmas carols because it might offend someone. And it's not just the religious songs; it's the secular ones too. No more "Jingle Bells" or "Rudolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer" because they're associated with Christmas. Boy, aren't we getting sensitive? If we're not celebrating Christmas for the hope it gives with the birth of our Savior . . . there is no hope!
I noticed a few years ago that we changed the name of Abraham Lincoln's and George Washington's birthday so as to be all inclusive regarding the Presidents. Hark, if we should recognize anyone as exceptional. Now it's called Presidents' Day.
Well, if we're going to be so all inclusive, next month I'll have to refer to Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Day as Civil Rights Leaders' Day. We don't want to exclude great Americans like Rosa Parks or Cesar Chavez, do we? And to think that Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton might be left out.
We might need to change Mother's Day, Father's Day, and Grandparents' Day to All Parents' Day. Just lump them all together.
It sounds ridiculous, doesn't it? So what's the difference? My freedom to celebrate Christmas in the tradition of the Christian religion is as much my right as it is your right to be offended by it. So what are we going to do? Did anyone hear me . . . what are we going to do?
Do we defend a person's right to go forward with a time tested tradition (how about 2000 years?), or do we defend a person's right to end it all because they're offended? As long as we live in this great land and have the freedom to express ourselves and what we believe in, we will always offend someone. If we try to make everything right for everyone, we won't have anything for anyone.
May you always have Christmas in your heart!
MERRY CHRISTMAS, EVERYONE!!!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, JESUS!
Merry Christmas!
The liberals overshot themselves this year. Now they will begin to reap the whirlwind.
And I, for one, consider it merely another Christmas gift!
It's a gift that keeps on giving.
Merry Christmas, you dear person. My granddaughter and I were singing "Hark, the Herald Angels Sing" in the supermarket parking lot the other day (she is 3) and it made everyone smile. As we should no better than anyone, there is always hope. And good for you.
Great essay - and MERRY CHRISTMAS!
I've noticed that quite a few more people are actually saying "Merry Christmas" this year. Maybe we've had enough of the Left trying to push us around.
And where in the Constitution does it say we have the right not to be offended? That same Constitution not only guarantees the right of free speech and religion, it says that the "free exercise thereof" may not be prohibited.
I completely and totally agree with you on this, Laz. "Pushback" - that's it, exactly.
I work with a Muslim guy from Morocco, and today he told me to have a Merry Christmas. I thought that was pretty nice.
That's all right. When the Baby Jesus comes back in power and glory, He'll kick those offended right into hell.
So. . . to all those who take offense at the Messiah of Israel and the Lord of Glory, Merry Christmas. . . and watch your back. There will be a reckoning ultimately.
Count on it.
As Bart Simpson said, "Christmas is the one time of year when people of all religions come together to worship Jesus Christ."
I'm one of them saying it and I think I'll keep saying it all year long!
Merry Christmas to you. Show them what it's all about!
I am sorry but an "in your face" message, rolling down the window and turning up the radio, will not win converts to Christianity, and isn't that what our calling is? To spread the Gospel?
There is a difference between standing up for the Nativity set on public property or singing Christmas carols, but showing that we aren't going to be humble and spread a loving message is only going to agrivate the situation.
I don't think the majority get offended over xmas, just the PC liberal elite crowd and their lapdogs in the media. I don't celebrate xmas, but I'm certainly not offended by those who do.
BTW, Merry Christmas (and I do mean it)
An old Chinese proverb:"It is as bad to take offense as to give offense."
And I'm also impressed that Hobby Lobby is closed on Sundays so their employees can go to church with their families. And Target won't even let the bellringers come near their doors!
HAPPY HOLY DAY !!
Jesus didn't worry about aggravating the moneychangers when he drove them out of the temple! Nothing humble about that! Sometimes we need to show righteous indignation. IMHO
Merry Christmas!
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Sooner or later, we may be forced to apply sneaky methods in order to remain safe from prosecution for using the liberal's most hated words... "Merry Christmas" !!!
Which is to say, if we rely on pronunciation sounds, rather than spelling, we be able to stick it to the liberals with "Mare Reek Wrist Miss" !!! ;-))
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