Of course, this is the BB and a joke, because little annoys a woman more than a guy working hard to flirt with the waitress.
And yes some guys do that, as if provoking a supposed return flirtation from the waitress, who just wants a good tip, proves the dude’s appeal to women. Likewise, some women overreact as if the dude is flirting when he’s simply being nice.
I say it that way because despite everything she was doing it was clearly going over his dear, oblivious head without even ruffling his hair.
I walked up and put my hand on his arm with my wedding ring clearly on display.
Bartender went into professional mode.
When I later teased him about it he said, "who?"
I explained and he got a confused look on his face, "But, I'm married!"
In his mind she could have only been being polite because anything else was unthinkable.
I did leave her a nice tip.
Can't fault her taste. :)