"They don't know what love is. I know what love is!"
-- Randy Newman
I don’t get it, either. To my way of thinking, the fewer needs one has, the happier one will be; but believe me, I hear a lot of women lamenting that they want to feel that need that they used to feel. Not me. I’m happily coupled and I appreciate all the expressions of love, but I don’t want to be walking around in some state of arousal at all times.