The school needs to call babymama and tell her if the child cannot act right, she is going to have to find another place to babysit her child.
Can’t...
The schools get penalized if they boot too many troublemakers, not to mention sued.
And then babymama shows up with her latest boyfriend and beats the living daylights out of the teacher.
Not sure what the laws are in your state; here in Connecticut, all p.s. must accept students, without exception. [A local or regional board of education is mandated to provide free school services to all school age children who are permanent residents of the town or school district Section 10-186]
Parochial and private schools are not affected by that law. They can kick a student out, if need be. And guess where those kids end up? Warts and all.
Babymomma will show up and raise he$$ and wag her finger and get violent. The school will acquiesce to her tirade and the cycle starts all over again.
That's how the game is played.