I spend next to nothing on non essentials. My bride on the other hand.......
Me too
I spend big bank on NINE DEPENDENTS
Not much on myself
Been there done all that
Another Rollo
Another Porsche
I’ve got college and commercial mortgages and six figure property taxes
I’m happy to be able to take care of everybody more than needing “my” swag or toys
I consider the chocolate dipped strawberries I sent (from a business trip) to my 24 year old daughter and none-of-your-business year old wife for their Birthdays to be essentials. ;-P