Ehh....it’s a problem, but WHY are guys preferring porn to women..?
It’s NOT just divorce, or employment.
The whole “no means no” campgain means some guys are AFRAID of the potential legal consequences of NORMAL FLIRTING.
Even if you haven’t been sued or fired for trying to get a date with a woman, almost all guys have heard of such stories:
Who wants THAT..?
It used to be that MOST people who ended up getting married met their partner at work, but now it’s VERY common for guys to resolve to NEVER date or even flirt with ANY woman at their company.
After some generations, this really begins to take a toll.
Another place where young people meet is at college, yet more and more that’s ground-zero for false accusations of rape, virtual rape, etc, etc, etc.
No porn will get you fired, no porn will accuse you of rape, no porn will accuse you of sexual harassment or “causing an atmosphere that comprimises productivity or learning”.
Feminism has won, and now there is no romance.
And there are no kids (other than Mexican ones).
A rabbi told me an essential ingredient of long-term female happiness is some sense that SOMEhow she’s submitting to a man.
That makes sense if we consider that many women won’t hit on men, and women who aren’t hit upon somehow might not find a partner.
What if SOME FORCE inhibits almost ALL men from pursuing women?
If taking the partner approach initiative befell women and they all did succeed in getting men, would they nonethless feel happy, without having submitted to the advances of men..?
I think no.
Guys would not only get creeped out, but many women would later resent having to make the first move.
Men are turning to porn to avoid nasty legal and professional consequences, and both men and women will suffer the attendant negative consequences.
Because porn caters to fantasy and not real-life women.
Porn actresses, who all happen to have a perfect body, will let herself be demeaned and act like she likes it. She is there only for him to be pleasured, not her (again, where the "acting" part comes in).
Men start thinking that's what women like, that's what sex is ... and when they have a real woman in their bed she will fall short in his eyes.
“Feminism has won, and now there is no romance.”
Because ugly girls couldn’t get it, no one should get it.
Porn can get you fired very quickly. The acronym NSFW (not safe for work) is posted as a warning for just that reason.
The West is dead. Fleeing to Russia looks really good now. Their civilization is not ay a risk of collapse unlike ours.
I would say you can’t have what we have today...fish/bicycle, men/rapists/abusers/deadbeats...family court nightmare for men...due process turned upside down...without it affecting the way men view women...which undoubtedly affects the way they feel about them.
Pshaw—Internet dating has made geting a date, who is not going to sue you for flirting, easier than ever.
One of the reasons that these charges of rape, etc. are so common is that women (aside from the feminist weirdoes) do not know how to say no in the first place and they also know that if they say no, the guy will dump them and just go find someone else. So they say yes or get so drunk they don’t know what they’ve said, and then they feel bad afterwards and decide that they must have been raped.
And one of the reasons they feel that they must always be ready to put out is that men watch so much porn that they have simply come to expect immediate, relationship-free sex of any woman they meet. Don’t forget that boys start seeing this stuff practically from childhood now, and increasing numbers of girls watch it. Not to mention the completely amoral sex ed that begins in about fourth grade now.
I read an article about one of these false rape charges last week that described a 21 year old college student who was having his degree revoked because a 18 year old fellow student had claimed that he raped her. Nobody denied that they had had sex, but she suddenly decided after the fact that she hadn’t wanted It. But what was really strange was that no one thought the circumstances were worthy of comment: the two didn’t know each other and were just sharing a cab back to town from a bar. He asked her if she wanted to come over, she went to his house, they had sex, and later she decided she hadn’t really wanted to do so. He didn’t even know her name.
The thing that nobody commented on was why the school, the students and even the families seemed to think it was perfectly normal for this 18 year old student to act like a street hooker and why it was normal for the male to assume that this girl, whose name he didn’t even know, was automatically available for sex.
I think porn not only affects people’s physical response, but it makes them see people of the opposite sex as kind of automatic sexual vending machines.