Seeking forgiveness from the person you wronged sounds selfish.....or self oriented
You’re risking reupsetting someone you helped mess up so you can feel better?
That is for you to work out with God
Christian interpretation here is often different from my upbringing in south long ago
Its less stoic...odd to me
Not personal to anyone here
——Seeking forgiveness from the person you wronged sounds selfish.....or self oriented——
Not at all, when done humbly and being contrite....
It’s lets the wronged person know you understand you were in error and allows true reconciliation....