Oh, I don't know, perhaps a little four-letter world called "love."
You can't take an edge case (e.g., "married man would rather do himself while watching porn than be done by his wife") and pass it off as the norm, because what you're really doing is giving an example of a really bad marriage between two people who would probably have intimacy issues even if porn never existed. Now I'm not here to suggest that porn is wonderful, but rather to suggest that in the realm of this subject, maybe you're acting the part of the "gun grabber" who suggests that the "gun" is the evil thing that must be forbidden for the sake of humanity.
Yes - 13 year old boy shoots 5 year old sister thanks to watching gun violence on TV.
Time to ban guns - and violence on TV! It is for the children! Won’t SOMEONE think of the CHILDREN!!!!