[icwhatudo]

Should have been taught to do drywall, paint, electric, plumbing, roofing, HVAC. Trumpet???? WTF?

[JRandomFreeper]

I had to learn to wheelbarrow and edge concrete (I wasn't big enough to finish concrete) so that I would be allowed take piano and violin lessons. At age 9.

He can do both. It won't kill him. Besides, you need arm strength build by hard work to do a good job a playing music, which teaches fine control. Which makes you better at detail work out in the field.

/johnny