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Need Therapy? A Good Man Is Hard to Find
NY Times ^ | May 21st 2011 | Benedict Carey

Posted on 05/22/2011 2:22:31 AM PDT by Cardhu

Between unresolved family conflicts, relationship struggles and his mixed-race identity, James Puckett had enough on his mind in college that he sought professional help. But after bouncing from one therapist to another, he still felt stuck.

“They were all female, and they did give me some comfort,” said Mr. Puckett, 30, who works for a domestic-abuse program in Wisconsin. “But I was getting the same rhetoric about changing my behavior without any challenge to see the bigger picture of what was behind these very male coping reactions, like putting your hand through a wall.”

He decided to seek out a male therapist instead, and found that there were few of them. “I’m just glad I ended up with the person I did,” said Mr. Puckett, who is no longer in therapy, “because for me it made all the difference.”

Researchers began tracking the “feminization” of mental health care more than a generation ago, when women started to outnumber men in fields like psychology and counseling. Today the takeover is almost complete.

Men earn only one in five of all master’s degrees awarded in psychology, down from half in the 1970s. They account for less than 10 percent of social workers under the age of 34, according to a recent survey. And their numbers have dwindled among professional counselors — to 10 percent of the American Counseling Association’s membership today from 30 percent in 1982 — and appear to be declining among marriage and family therapists.

Some college psychology programs cannot even attract male applicants, much less students. And at many therapists’ conferences, attendees with salt-and-pepper beards wander the hallways as lonely as peaceniks at a gun fair.

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Education; Health/Medicine; Society
KEYWORDS: depression; men; psychology; therapists; therapy
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"In just the past few years, psychologists have identified a number of issues that are, in effect, male versions of the gender-identity issues that so many mothers face in the work force: the self-doubt of being a stay-at-home father, the tension between being a provider and being a father, even male post-partum depression."

Have fun...

1 posted on 05/22/2011 2:22:37 AM PDT by Cardhu
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To: Cardhu

Get over it!


2 posted on 05/22/2011 2:32:03 AM PDT by TigersEye (Who crashed the markets on 9/15/08 and why?)
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To: TigersEye

There is no money in that advice. Thirty second sessions can’t justify big bucks from the needful.


3 posted on 05/22/2011 2:38:21 AM PDT by Cardhu
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To: Cardhu

I should have known. After all I think I coined the phrase “Simplifying is a complicated process.”


4 posted on 05/22/2011 2:43:49 AM PDT by TigersEye (Who crashed the markets on 9/15/08 and why?)
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To: Cardhu

It’s ultimately the faith based counselors (of either gender) that do the best. With no Goal, it’s rather hard to aim at it.


5 posted on 05/22/2011 2:44:50 AM PDT by HiTech RedNeck (Hawk)
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To: TigersEye

One thing I’ve learned is that you are often what you do.

The best thing to do with unpleasent memories and the difficulties in handling them is ask yourself, “What would you do if you didn’t have this experience?”

Then go do that very thing.


6 posted on 05/22/2011 2:48:55 AM PDT by Jonty30
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To: Cardhu
“That’s interesting… You know what makes me sad? YOU DO! Maybe we should chug on over to namby-pamby land where maybe we can find some self confidence for you ya jackwagon. Tissue?”
7 posted on 05/22/2011 2:52:56 AM PDT by ALPAPilot
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To: Jonty30

That is an interesting thought. I will have to contemplate that and see if I can find something to apply it to. Not too many things bother me anymore but something is bound to come up whether new or something old resurfacing.


8 posted on 05/22/2011 2:53:35 AM PDT by TigersEye (Who crashed the markets on 9/15/08 and why?)
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To: TigersEye

It doesn’t even have to be bad memories. It can simply be situations that your acting or reacting in ways that you aren’t happy with.


9 posted on 05/22/2011 2:59:56 AM PDT by Jonty30
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To: Cardhu
I don't think I would be good at therapy because I just realized you can re-size this window that you type your post into and I am content enough about that.

I would probably just fall asleep. I can do that at home.

10 posted on 05/22/2011 3:06:20 AM PDT by Berlin_Freeper (Obama can't see something pure like the truth without wanting to abort it.)
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To: TigersEye

At the American Counseling Association's annual conference in March, women predominated, as they do in the profession

That guy is going to be laughing during the bathroom break.

11 posted on 05/22/2011 3:10:19 AM PDT by Cardhu
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To: Jonty30

I see, yes, that makes sense. A way to deal with neurotic patterns of any kind. Followed by reflection on the results I can see how that could be very effective.


12 posted on 05/22/2011 3:15:51 AM PDT by TigersEye (Who crashed the markets on 9/15/08 and why?)
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To: Cardhu

Those are the patients aren’t they? ;^)


13 posted on 05/22/2011 3:17:07 AM PDT by TigersEye (Who crashed the markets on 9/15/08 and why?)
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To: TigersEye

I have found that people who enter that profession are the ones most in need of it.


14 posted on 05/22/2011 3:21:29 AM PDT by Cardhu
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To: Cardhu

That has been my experience as well. High suicide rate.


15 posted on 05/22/2011 3:27:38 AM PDT by TigersEye (Who crashed the markets on 9/15/08 and why?)
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To: Cardhu

That is often very true.

They tie their self worth to whether somebody likes them or not.


16 posted on 05/22/2011 3:35:53 AM PDT by Jonty30
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To: Jonty30

It is also the root cause as to why they vote liberal and why liberals tend to use playground tactics when dealing with people they don’t like.


17 posted on 05/22/2011 3:38:31 AM PDT by Jonty30
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To: Jonty30

...”One thing I’ve learned is that you are often what you do.

The best thing to do with unpleasent memories and the difficulties in handling them is ask yourself, “What would you do if you didn’t have this experience?”

Then go do that very thing”...

I like your thinking!


18 posted on 05/22/2011 4:28:31 AM PDT by jazzlite (esat)
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To: TigersEye

Pull up your skirt and get it done.


19 posted on 05/22/2011 4:34:22 AM PDT by driftdiver (I could eat it raw, but why do that when I have a fire.)
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To: Cardhu

Heard more than thirty years ago that three fourths of psychiatric patients are women. But then, I’ve always heeded this advice:

“Out here, pilgrim, a man learns to solve his own problems.”


20 posted on 05/22/2011 5:11:32 AM PDT by elcid1970 (Deport all Muslims. Nuke Mecca. Death to Islam.)
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