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1 posted on 03/10/2010 7:46:39 AM PST by Niuhuru
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Thirteen year-olds can be the meanest, most vicious people in the world.

Life isn’t fair.


2 posted on 03/10/2010 7:49:29 AM PST by henkster (A broken government does not merit full faith and credit.)
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No discipline in schools anymore. I was amazed when I saw high school kids getting out of school. Tattoos, beards, body piercings, cell phones...foul mouths...in class. Complete breakdown.


3 posted on 03/10/2010 7:50:44 AM PST by Dallas59 (President Robert Gibbs 2009-2013)
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I was picked on in school. Never once thought of hanging myself.


4 posted on 03/10/2010 7:50:55 AM PST by DJ MacWoW (Make yourselves sheep and the wolves will eat you. Ben Franklin)
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Why didn't her parents just tell her to say "that's right, I'm pretty, and you are as ugly as a monkey...MONKEYFACE!!!"

The way to deal with bullies is to bully back. My "4-eyed" brainiac son had his glasses broken in 3rd grade by larger black bully and the school dd nothing about it. So I told him if he bothers you again kick him as hard as you can on his knee. So he did. And no one ever bothered him again. He was suspended for 2 days, but it was worth it.

12 posted on 03/10/2010 7:57:07 AM PST by montag813
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The article says she was in foster care, so I assume the bad issues in her life went much deeper than being too pretty.

Typical British tabloid spin.

14 posted on 03/10/2010 7:57:34 AM PST by dead (I've got my eye out for Mullah Omar.)
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I remember a boy in my HS who hanged himself because he was so smart. This guy was Einstein smart. Got bullied and just wanted to fit in. Couldn’t carry a conversation.


17 posted on 03/10/2010 7:58:50 AM PST by albie
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She was a pretty girl...dreadful tragedy.

19 posted on 03/10/2010 8:00:10 AM PST by Pharmboy (The Stone Age did not end because they ran out of stones...)
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There’s only one way to deal with bullies of any shape, size or gender and that’s to throw it back at them. These poor girls aren’t taught any self confidence by the parents or in schools so when someone attacks them they have no idea how to handle it physically or mentally.

I was the “victim” (hate that word) of some serious bullying in my teenage years but I had the will power to face it and fight it because my parents wouldn’t let me do it any other way. So there’s the key...be parents! If your kid is coming home depressed and sad, there’s a reason for it. Be the protector of your kids because Lord know the school won’t be.

Further, too many people think high school is the end all be all of life. It’s not. There are so many good things that are away from that 4 year hell. So much to look forward to...but no one tells them that. Every one acts like being 16 is the best time of your life. You couldn’t pay me to go back to that age.


37 posted on 03/10/2010 8:13:47 AM PST by JenB987 (under God's Spirit she flourishes)
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As a former foster parent, I’d say being in foster care had a BIG part of it. The foster part seems to be trivialized in the article. Perhaps this is to make the birthparents ‘feel better’ about themselves.

we have a society where adults say ‘I’ll do what I want!’ and to hell with the consequences. The fact is that most foster kids are born to single parents—and then there is the booze, drugs, the boyfriend of the month, etc.

One last thing—who the HELL names their kid Poppy?


41 posted on 03/10/2010 8:19:41 AM PST by Cheesel (The Ark was built by amateurs, the Titanic by professionals.)
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My 12 and 14 year old daughters go through this mess. My 12 year old lived through the rumor all last year (yes, when she was ELEVEN!) that she was pregnant because she still had some tummy on her.

That is such a cruel age.


42 posted on 03/10/2010 8:20:26 AM PST by autumnraine (You can't fix stupid, but you can vote it out!)
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My granddaughter had been bullied by a few girls for this entire school year. A few weeks ago, one of the girls was alone, and my gd confronted her. The girl got smart, so my granddaughter slapped her. My granddaughter got a week’s suspension; the bullies got a pass. Even so, the bullies aren’t quite so mouthy anymore. These girls are 12 years old.


44 posted on 03/10/2010 8:21:09 AM PST by Jaidyn
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She was in foster care and looking at her picture, she was extremely thin. Bullying might have been part of it but it seems she had lots of other problems.


45 posted on 03/10/2010 8:21:12 AM PST by bgill (The framers of the US Constitution established an entire federal government in 18 pages.)
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Is the pic in the story her? If so there is more to the story about her unhappiness imo


61 posted on 03/10/2010 8:39:05 AM PST by fml
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My niece went through hell in middle school and high school because she was one of the prettiest girls in the school. She is also a very sensitive young woman in her temperament. Not in an over sensitive manner, just a sweet mild mannered personality. In other words, she doesn't have it in her to be a bi#*h like some of the other girls who attended her school. Yeah, she toughed it out but it did have its effects on her. Some can bury it or deal with it, while others, like this poor girl in the news are walking a mine field.

“For many, ‘mean girl’ practice starts early”

“...Research shows that mothers will respond forcefully if their young daughters bite or hit someone, Simmons says. But verbal bullying is different.

“Very often, moms say, ‘That’s just girls being girls.’ But if you make light of it and don’t intervene, you’re giving your daughter permission,’’ she says.

Coloroso says it’s imperative to acknowledge bullying regardless of age because the behavior often progresses.

She described a case last year in Washington state in which a group of sixth-grade girls made an animated video set to a Hannah Montana tune and put it on YouTube. Titled “Top Six Ways to Kill Piper,’’ the video showed two girls shooting their classmate, shoving her off a cliff, poisoning her, and making her kill herself. The perpetrators, 11 and 12 years old, were disciplined by their school, but no criminal charges were filed.

“If we don’t handle it in grade school,’’ Coloroso says, “it only gets worse.’’”

http://www.boston.com/community/moms/articles/2010/03/09/mean_girl_behavior_begins_at_early_ages/?p1=Well_MostPop_Emailed7

81 posted on 03/10/2010 9:44:30 AM PST by 444Flyer (Save the SEALs!(Petty Officer 2nd Class Matthew McCabe, Petty Officer Jonathan Keefe/ Julio Heurtas))
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Well the little bully punks were lucky she did not completely snap....


87 posted on 03/10/2010 10:04:31 AM PST by valkyry1
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But if kids don’t go to government school, they’ll miss out on socialization.


106 posted on 03/10/2010 11:21:01 AM PST by Arthur McGowan (In Edward Kennedy's America, federal funding of brothels is a right, not a privilege.)
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Dreadful. RIP.


114 posted on 03/10/2010 6:43:10 PM PST by fieldmarshaldj (~"This is what happens when you find a stranger in the Amber Lamps !"~~)
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Too bad nobody picks on Chuckie Schumer.


115 posted on 03/10/2010 6:50:26 PM PST by Nik Naym (This space under construction)
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There is obviously more to this story BTTT


119 posted on 03/11/2010 12:35:55 AM PST by DollyCali (Don't tell God how big your storm is...Tell the storm how big your God is!)
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Manchester...is this near Britian’s Muslim-land?


126 posted on 03/11/2010 4:45:17 PM PST by Chickensoup (We have the government we deserve. Is our government our traitor?)
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