Our rule with our kids was nothing pierced, nothing tattooed and no hair colors that God doesnt make hair. Violation of the rule would result in finances being cut off.
Fair enough, but we are talking adult teachers here. I think it is great that you give your children boundries...if only more parents would do that, we would be better off!!!
I guess that was my point: had she had some sense of limits imposed, she might not have that tramp stamp now. Of course, this could increase her chances of success with the 10th grade boys. No sense of limits might extend to all sorts of aspects of her life.