I know a lot of men who complain about this. They went from being #1 in their wife’s eyes to last place. Their wives complain about being “exhausted” all the time. Every woman I know on FB is “exhausted”. Half of them don’t do anything but they are “exhausted”.
This is when men take up hunting and fishing.
And golf. And get a motorcycle if they can afford to. Or a boat. That's life!
It’s all fun and games until the kids arrive.
Then life begins.
My daughter is 9 and my Wife & I do enjoy our time as a couple but nothing beats being together as a family.
People let themselves fall into a sedentary acquiescence of sorts and never move or adapt.
And this explains why guys generally do not want to marry women in their 30s. Imagine getting practically none of the best part before she wants to start having kids and demote you to last place in her life. For most guys the answer is “no thanks”. Feminists in the West have caused a great deal of harm telling young women to focus on their careers in their 20s on the theory that guy’s are just going to accept a (for them) much worse deal. Nope! Then where does that leave them both?
You raise kids 24/7 and then get back to me about how *exhausted* you are.
Then we'll suggest you're making it up and won't believe you either.
“This is when men take up hunting and fishing.”
70 / 90 years ago— THAT WAS “FEEDING your family”..at least in Lincoln County, Missouri..and I am sure countless other parts of the USA....Many a bucket of catfish cleaned for eating, or selling to St.louis ‘kissin cuzzzins.....Duck hunting not exactly a ‘sport’ back then.... Just Saying..