And golf. And get a motorcycle if they can afford to. Or a boat. That's life!
If every one of your female friends is "exhausted" why do you think they are lying?
Maybe you are spending too much time on Farcebook?
My favorite is the SAHM’s who want their husband to leave. They go to the judge and the first thing they hear is “Get a job”. “But I homeschool!”. “Not anymore”.
We had a rash of professors running off with graduate students. Girlfriend, now you have a broke old guy.
The wives would not be so burned out of the men actually pitched in and acted like the dad they were instead of feeling entitled to go out have have all the fun they want while leaving/abandoning the wife to continue to be the 24/7 caretaker of the kids and manager of the home.
You self-centered, self-absorbed entitlement mentality is exactly what causes the wife to be exhausted and marriages to fail.
The kids are your too and you have the responsibility to act like the father you are and contribute to raising them.