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How to Talk to Your Family About Racism on Thanksgiving
Harper's Baazars ^ | November 19, 2018 | Rachel Cargle

Posted on 11/20/2018 11:33:12 AM PST by GuavaCheesePuff

Toxic ideologies often start around family dinner tables. It's not just an uncle saying a racist joke, or a grandmother determining her xenophobic ideas as “a part of her time.” These comments seep into how we make decisions in voting booths, how judges rule in their chambers, how teachers guide students in school classrooms, how employment decisions are made, and how police react in high-stakes situations.

After a year of relentless atrocities that don’t always make for easy conversation at the dinner table, it's important to make Thanksgiving preparations beyond the tablescape and the menu. This year, I want you to prepare for something a little more nuanced than stuffing or cranberry sauce: I want you to prepare to rock the family boat, with important discussions that stretch beyond the surface of “How's the weather?” and “Who are you dating these days?” So, I'm coming to you with a guide that should push you beyond apathy, and instead, teach you how to be a part of the solution. As Angela Davis reminds us, it is not enough to not be racist. You have to be anti-racist, and if you are not actively being part of the solution, then you are a part of the problem. So here is some language to help you navigate Thanksgiving day dinner.

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To: oh8eleven

“So, if I only ask for white meat, I’m a racist?”

I’m only cooking a breast. I guess I should expect a visit from Black Lives Matter.


61 posted on 11/20/2018 11:59:46 AM PST by bk1000 (I stand with Trump)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff; lightman

NONE of this is what Thanksgiving Day is all about:

http://ww1.antiochian.org/node/18560

Happy Thanksgiving Day to all of you!!!!


62 posted on 11/20/2018 12:00:06 PM PST by Honorary Serb (Kosovo is Serbia! Free Srpska! Abolish ICTY!)
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To: Responsibility2nd

LOL!


63 posted on 11/20/2018 12:01:05 PM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Not this crap again.


64 posted on 11/20/2018 12:01:06 PM PST by GSWarrior
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To: Responsibility2nd

You’re just lucky your family isn’t a bunch of Vegans who think that “Meat is Murder”.


65 posted on 11/20/2018 12:01:15 PM PST by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: treetopsandroofs

LOL! Will add it to my collection.


66 posted on 11/20/2018 12:01:20 PM PST by SkyDancer ( ~ Just Consider Me A Random Fact Generator ~ Eat Sleep Fly Repeat ~)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Who wants Dark Meat should do.


67 posted on 11/20/2018 12:02:49 PM PST by ImJustAnotherOkie (All I know is what I read in the papers.)
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To: bk1000

Better get more turkey.


68 posted on 11/20/2018 12:03:28 PM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: elcid1970
Wasn’t there a similar guide for provocative Thanksgiving conversation in huffingtonpost.com
Have never read the huffington-puffington post.
69 posted on 11/20/2018 12:03:57 PM PST by oh8eleven (RVN '67-'68)
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To: max americana

The terms “drumstick”, “white meat”, & “dark meat” date to Victorian times when saying leg, thigh, or breast was considered beyond the pale.


70 posted on 11/20/2018 12:04:07 PM PST by elcid1970 (My gun safe is saying, "Room for one more, honey!")
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To: dfwgator

That would really stink.


71 posted on 11/20/2018 12:04:08 PM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: oh8eleven

I’d prefer a double cheeseburger and fries with some onion rings for Thanksgiving. An RC to drink.

My wife gets really irked at my choice. It has to be the big overkill meal.


72 posted on 11/20/2018 12:04:12 PM PST by wally_bert (I will competently make sure the thing is done incompetently.)
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

Solution: Do not invite toxic Leftists to your Thanksgiving table. They are no fun and are looking to pick a fight. We gave up on one couple in our family group after they ruined the happy gathering.

When asked when we were getting together, we told them the truth and suggested they work at the Salvation Army soup kitchen instead of having to put up with the rest of us. We briefly missed them, but very briefly.


73 posted on 11/20/2018 12:05:16 PM PST by txrefugee
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To: wally_bert

It’s a good day to take a nap on the couch.


74 posted on 11/20/2018 12:06:13 PM PST by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: GSWarrior

If someone starts that, I’ll come back with:

Me: “Aren’t all white people basically racist?”
“Why yes, I believe they are “
Me: “I don’t allow racists to lecture me on race”.


75 posted on 11/20/2018 12:08:42 PM PST by AppyPappy (How many fingers am I holding up, Winston?)
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To: trisham

I get driven to the brink of insanity over stupid things that are guilt by association. Dumb sports stuff. I hate sports in general.


76 posted on 11/20/2018 12:11:39 PM PST by wally_bert (I will competently make sure the thing is done incompetently.)
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To: oh8eleven

It was discussed by El Rushbo, Hannity & others as being outrageous & rude to the Thanksgiving spirit, deliberately bringing up politics to cause hard feelings & argument.

This Rachel chick goes even further, saying that if you don’t totally ruin your family’s holiday meal, that you’re....you got it....a RACIST!!

I’m sure the staff at Chipotle’s is glad to see that gummy gargoyle grin storming through the door.


77 posted on 11/20/2018 12:12:12 PM PST by elcid1970 (My gun safe is saying, "Room for one more, honey!")
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To: GuavaCheesePuff

The left has sucked the fun out of everything they have touched. Now even Thanksgiving needs to be a droll, ponderous, dragging affair.


78 posted on 11/20/2018 12:12:40 PM PST by Magnatron
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To: wally_bert
It has to be the big overkill meal.
I don't mind the meal at all,but then, I'm not cooking it.
Wife just announced that this is the last year she's cooking - from now on it's off to a restaurant then back home for coffee and dessert.

The really big "overkill" nowadays is Christmas. Damned media begins tauting in October and by Thanksgiving, I'm sick of it. It's so bad even my grandkids call me "grumpy grandpa!"
79 posted on 11/20/2018 12:12:51 PM PST by oh8eleven (RVN '67-'68)
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To: oh8eleven

We did Cracker barrel one year. My grandmother died a few months before.

No one else seemed interested.

I had a cheeseburger and fries. Spouse had some traditional stuff.


80 posted on 11/20/2018 12:15:23 PM PST by wally_bert (I will competently make sure the thing is done incompetently.)
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