I cannot begin to tell you of my distaste for destination weddings.
Selfishness beyond belief.
Especially when so many sink close to a nice down-payment on a little house on the wedding shindig - and wind up divorced within a few years ;-)
My son had one in Cancun. They did it for many reasons, mostly because she comes from a HUGE extended family and the cost of a traditional wedding would have been exorbitant.
The cost for three of us was about $3600 for a five day vacation, including air fare.
Only immediate family and 4 close friends were invited.
It was beautiful and saved the families thousands of dollar.