[wardaddy]

I would never coerce or force sex not even in marriage

My feelings are hurt if I don’t feel her hot breath

I want to be wanted and missed....desired ached for

I don’t think that’s atypical for men do you

I’ve never ever been like the Meatloaf song parody

Even in my wold youth

It’s just so much better if you know her heart and or desire is in it

If you’re doing like Weinstein or Toback it’s about power and anger

Truly ugly fat men forcing gorgeous women to their will for intimacy they would normally never get

I mean Chapman is fine as hell....how she bedded is yuck factor 11 but I’d have been tickled with her every night at least looks wise

I just don’t get it

[Yaelle]

I think there are two breeds of men. One does not become aroused by scared and miserable women under their power, and one does. I honestly do not know what in the second group’s brain or experience caused this.

Good men are like good women, aroused by mutual sexual attraction and interest.

It is revolting to think that some men NEED to basically hurt or overpower the unwilling in order to feel sexual pleasure. It is just so wrong. And they know that their orgasm in front of a victim is about as appealing as if they just defecated in front of the victim. It practically falls under the category of violence than sex.

I don’t know which Meatloaf song you mean.

[Yaelle]

I mean Chapman is fine as hell....how she bedded is yuck factor 11 but I’d have been tickled with her every night at least looks wise.

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I just remembered Chapman was Harvey’s wife. Well, that is kind of like Bill Cosby: with his fame, he could have had one night stands or affairs with MANY beautiful ladies. But Cosby’s kink was that he got off on the UNWILLING, and in his case, the COMATOSE. He chose not to have plain affairs; he wanted them almost dead, like how a cat plays with its dead mouse victim.
Harvey had a business deal with his wife, but for his jollies he wanted to abuse unwilling girls. That is what turned him on.