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An author’s VERY provocative broadside: Controlling wives and vengeful divorcees [tr]
UK Daily Mail ^ | October 19, 2017 | Peter LLoyd

Posted on 10/19/2017 8:42:17 AM PDT by C19fan

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To: JohnyBoy

“Wouldn’t return to biblical patriarchy, virgin brides, and slut-shaming be more effective?”

Yes, along with arranged marriage.


21 posted on 10/19/2017 10:30:35 AM PDT by Mariner (War Criminal #18)
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To: Responsibility2nd

Well yeah, presumably the State has an interest in encouraging parents to take care of their children, and marriage is by far the most effective means that humans have devised in accomplishing that.


22 posted on 10/19/2017 10:42:01 AM PDT by Behind the Blue Wall
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To: C19fan

I saw this one before. The author honors and respects his parents long marriage with three or four children, but says marriage is too dangerous for him in this day and age.


23 posted on 10/19/2017 10:54:37 AM PDT by dennisw (Once is happenstance. Twice is coincidence. The third time it is enemy action.)
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To: Behind the Blue Wall

I’ve had many arguments with some of our liberal FReepers who believe the State should butt out of marriages. They argue it is a religious thing and therefore, it is no business of theirs if homos marry or whatnot.

Nonsense.

Leave all the religious aspects out of marriage if you like, but it still remains a contract. A legal binding agreement between two people. And the state can no more disinvolve itself with a marriage contract than they could with a similar legal contract involving real property or whatever.

Besides, the State has a vested interest in healthy marriages and traditional families.

Unfortunately liberal democrats have a greater interest in replacing the father with a welfare check and making sure minorities stay on the plantation with broken homes and a broken economy as the result.


24 posted on 10/19/2017 11:07:21 AM PDT by Responsibility2nd
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To: miss marmelstein

There is a lot of goofy things being posted lately. A lot of borderline racists crap, I agree with your assessment.


25 posted on 10/19/2017 11:43:14 AM PDT by fatez (Ya, well, you know, that's just your opinion man...)
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To: miss marmelstein
Man, Free Republic is becoming Women Haters Central.

Not as long as *I* am here.

I *love* women.

26 posted on 10/19/2017 11:49:02 AM PDT by Lazamataz (The "news" networks and papers are bitter, dangerous enemies of the American people.)
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To: umgud
I tried everything to keep my marriage together, but when she shot and killed her boyfriend and my new refrigerator in my kitchen, I figured it was time to end it.

Dude, you are HARD. I would have given this woman a few more chances.

The only non-negotiable is genocide. If she kills more than half an entire race, all bets are off.

Unless, of course, she had a good reason. I need to be reasonable here.

27 posted on 10/19/2017 11:51:10 AM PDT by Lazamataz (The "news" networks and papers are bitter, dangerous enemies of the American people.)
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To: Behind the Blue Wall
They understand that perfectly. There should be rules, however, that if the marriage dissolves, the benefit of such dissolution doesn't just benefit the woman, which is the case now.
29 posted on 10/19/2017 11:58:45 AM PDT by deadrock
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To: Lazamataz

I do too.

But after a complete withdrawal of any emotional, conversational, and physical connectivity by my wife (we rarely talked, even about bills/kids/etc. for over 4 years, and no physical intimacy for that time as well), I moved out of the house. I had hoped to ‘shock’ her, and get her to decide to talk with me, help clean the house, cook dinner, etc. (all the things I did). The pastor told her that she can’t have me move back in just because it’s inconvenient for her to have to do all the taxi’ing of the kids, etc. Well, almost a year later, and she’s hired an attorney, and we’re going through the divorce.

I will not get married again.


30 posted on 10/19/2017 12:03:51 PM PDT by ro_dreaming (Chesterton, 'Christianity has not been tried and found wanting. It's been found hard and not tried')
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To: fatez
Freerepublic is rough and tumble, not pomp and circumstance, but blood and guts.

Not recommended for snowflakes.

If you find something untoward, flag it and contact the admin monitors. Don't fling unsubstantiated claims.

31 posted on 10/19/2017 12:17:29 PM PDT by deadrock
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To: JohnyBoy

Your approach is more directed at society, mine is directed at individuals.

Society takes generations to repair.


32 posted on 10/19/2017 12:21:53 PM PDT by G Larry (There is no great virtue in bargaining with the Devil)
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To: miss marmelstein; Lazamataz
Man, Free Republic is becoming Women Haters Central

It's not "hating women" to make note of the fact that the divorce industry heavily favors wives, to the point of providing them with an incentive to divorce.

It's not like we were talking about keeping our women chained up the basement like Laz. Although the idea does have its attractions.

33 posted on 10/19/2017 12:49:33 PM PDT by PapaBear3625 (Big governent is attractive to those who think that THEY will be in control of it.)
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To: deadrock

Yep, but there is difference between snowflakes and bigotry. And we do have our own version of snowflakes on this site...


34 posted on 10/19/2017 12:54:59 PM PDT by fatez (Ya, well, you know, that's just your opinion man...)
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To: G Larry
As top grade as your pillars are, it is not really addressing the issue with MGTOW.

The end game of marriage has to be addressed, not the window dressing at the front door.

And right now, marriage is a liability for the man, and divorce is an asset for the woman. Until this feminist precept is addressed, nothing else matters. Not the "looking for the right spouse" or the "how to make a marriage work."

IBM will not merge with Apple if there is an unwritten rule that if there is a split Apple keeps most of IBM.

35 posted on 10/19/2017 12:59:09 PM PDT by deadrock
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To: Lazamataz

Classy as ever Laz...


36 posted on 10/19/2017 1:06:42 PM PDT by fatez (Ya, well, you know, that's just your opinion man...)
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To: Responsibility2nd

I agree in general, but I’m not sure that argument really goes against same-sex marriage. If I’m not mistaken, one of the issues in the cases was in fact whether there was a compelling governmental interest in prohibiting same-sex marriages, and it wasn’t clear that there was much there. If one single woman is allowed or even encouraged in some ways to raise a child on her own, that doesn’t leave much room to argue that two women can’t do it.


37 posted on 10/19/2017 1:10:06 PM PDT by Behind the Blue Wall
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To: umgud

I chuckled

Boy my ex would killed me too if I’d kept guns around

Try to hurt me one minute

And screw me to death the next

Crazy women are best at sex but don’t marry them

I learned the hard way

And 40/yr for 16 years child support

Both girls came to me soon as possible

Your post read like a detective novel at first

I hope u don’t mind it amused me


38 posted on 10/19/2017 2:37:01 PM PDT by wardaddy (Virtue signalers should be shot on sight...conservative ones racked and hanged then fed to dogs)
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To: wardaddy

I laugh at the story also.


39 posted on 10/19/2017 3:00:23 PM PDT by umgud
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To: fatez

Oh, shut up, you mick spoda slope injun nip wop wanker.


40 posted on 10/19/2017 5:39:20 PM PDT by Lazamataz (The "news" networks and papers are bitter, dangerous enemies of the American people.)
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