You're describing today's young women.
It applies to both. I’m not denying that.
I’m objecting to men blaming women for the condition men are in today. Men are supposed to be the leaders and set the example. What we are seeing today is what happens when men abdicate that role.
It seems as a rule most young people today are shallow as a puddle. Gone is common courtesy, chivalry, altruism, and other positive character qualities. It’s no wonder relationships don’t work anymore when everyone is out for number one.