I had my first at 38, miracle child. Docs can tell you what you need to do after 30 to be healthy.
I hear ya. Mine were born when I was 33, 35 and 38. Hubs and I got married when we were 28, first marriage for both. We were on the same page on a lot of stuff.
My bro got married at 49 (1st time) to a widow who told us some pretty scary stories about the single scene, especially for a nice girl with a job and a house.
As soon as single guys found out she had those assets they were ready to move in after a couple of dates. She had pretty much quit dating until she met my brother, who is about 4 years younger than her.
It’s scary out there for both men and women. I’m a little concerned for my kids but we tried to raise them right.