Egotistical tramps are not worth investing in.
Who convinced women men would be attracted to a woman who seeks to be their equal?
Two years? Ladies, Ladies, Ladies. If ya’ll aren’t exclusive within 6 months (after a credit and background check and referrals from trusted people and a parent check on both sides) and aren’t planning a wedding around 9months for a marriage within 15 months, then pick up your purse and walk out the door and don’t look back, because it’s not going to get any better. If he’s serious, he’s coming after you to get you back with a wedding, and if he doesn’t, well, that’s your answer right there.
Life’s too short. And you’re too valuable.
Women caused that problem long ago with the women’s lib movement.
Marrying a woman in her 30s is a pointless thing to do. Her ability to have kids is quite limited, she probably slept with 30-50 guys by 35 and will be unable to bond.
I am a very good man (in fallen, human terms).
I have never fornicated, I have never been drunk, and I was a true friend to many women. I sought a wife only among conservative, Christian women.
They loved my friendship, and they loved my ministry; they rejected my courtship.
Women want Bad Boys they can reform, or Success Objects they can exploit.
I was neither, and I have thus been alone. (By the bye, I was not a wimp. I took on the hierarchy alone more than once for hypocrisy or heresy. More than one woman lauded my courage.)
In their 30s, after rewarding the wrong men with their love and sex, they then want a better man like me to fix their excess emotional baggage and to father other men’s children.
I am not interested.
Yes, I admit I am bitter. I practiced what was preached in modern America’s churchianity, and was punished for it.
The institutionalized church does nothing to approbate virtuous men, nor to admonish foolish women.
But then, this is the same perverted entity that now calls homoeroticism compatible with Biblical Christianity.
The Frankfurt School now runs the organized church.
The real church is underground.
Article is tone deaf.
Dating in my early 30s as Amman is among the most traumatic things I’ve experienced. Women my age are poisonous, and all the good ones are being monopolized by all the wealthy or otherwise above average men (80/20 rule. 80% of the good women are competing for 20% of the top men).
For more average joes like me that left the poisonous and toxic for us to pick from. It also leaves most women single and childless by their mid 30s but by then, the remaining pool of men has either decided on their mates or said “to hell with it” and thus those ladies are left in the cold.
This is the sort of process that goes on in primitive tribal societies. It shouldn’t happen in a civilized society where marriage is a stable institution.
IE, marriage is dead in the West. The form of it continues but in truth it’s done and over with.
After you've lived with several and nothing ever worked out, your judgement and emotional stability come into question. And the jerks continue being attracted to you.
The reality is that young women are choosing to be promiscuous throughout their twenties and then they think they can just order a perfect husband when they are thirty. The online dating world involves a large number of women having casual sex with a small number of men, not at all like what this women suggests, that all men are being satiated by easy sex with a few bad girls who put out for any guy. More like the opposite.
Women in this age group today are incredibly immature and degenerate. Most are overweight, unfeminine and try to compete with men. These are the people who watch the Kardashians. A huge proportion come with some combination of the following baggage: Bastard kids, drug and alcohol problems, STD’s, massive debts, extreme feminism.
Time to get our act together, ladies. If we don't, they won't either.
Which is a real indictment of men.
It should not be women's responsibility to keep men in line or force them to act responsibly.
In a nutshell, men need to grow up and act like the adults they are supposed to be instead of looking for a free ride, housekeeping, food provided, and *privileges*.
Because they run as fast as they can to get away from all the liberated sluts looking for them.
Why make the commitment when the world is flooded with free milk?
Men are “louts”. Men are “not growing up”.
More condescending misandry.
Men are not stupid. They respond to incentives and disincentives in a logical way.
They have seen their friends, fathers, and brothers get raped by angry women in the family court system. They lose their children, their dignity, their families, and yes lots and lots of money that they work very hard for. Who wants to take that risk? When an impetuous woman can go all “eat pray love” and be celebrated - while the men’s lives are destroyed?
Same old same old.
Women complaining.
Blame shifting. Guilt shaming. Projecting what they do onto men.
On deaf ears. Most modern women are not biblical wife material. That is why.
Women wil counter many men are not either, typical of above tactics, that does not change the fact most women are not biblical marriage material. Instead they are women the bible says to avoid.
And men are avoiding them. They think they are awesome and that their babymaker, which they have let dozens of guys use, commands a high premium.
Marriage today is a racket run by women for women, enforced by the courts and the jails.
Many men, like Robin Williams, arrive exhausted at retirement age, with a screaming, money-devouring leech still attached.
George Gilder wrote all about this in Sexual Suicide (1973), and Pope Paul VI predicted it in Humanae Vitae (1968).
And we're expecting a cold winter.
Time to build a harem. Just need to get the wife onboard.
Well, there's your problem right there.
hoping
Hope is not a plan.
“Why buy the cow when the milk is free?”
Simple not profound truth: Men can get all the sex they want with no commitment, so why do they need a relationship that is likely to end in their financially losing half or more of what they have and be hated by their kids due to their being brainwashed by the mother?
Godly, single Christian men are out there, but rare. I have 3 sons to prove it: 28, 36, 41. All are “men’s men” in very good shape and very good looking.....and of course I’m totally objective...... ;-)
The good men gravitate to the good women - I gravitated way above my goodness grade and don't feel a bit guilty....;-)