Marriage today is a racket run by women for women, enforced by the courts and the jails.
Many men, like Robin Williams, arrive exhausted at retirement age, with a screaming, money-devouring leech still attached.
You sound like an embittered divorced man who lost custody of his kids. And here I had somehow gotten the impression that you are a Roman Catholic priest, who would naturally encourage holy matrimony as a beautiful vocation. Am I wrong?