I hear you. When I was in we had a female attached to our unit. We were doing Mountain and Arctic warfare in north Norway. She was useless, but half the guys flirted with her, and half the guys did not. I treated her as a guy , and she tried her flirty ways to get out of duties, her carrying her weight in her packs. in the end the unit cohesiveness broke down, and we had drama.
I hear all the time how females should be treated as equals, but then it is not about that, it is about the drama they bring.
guys not around women for a couple of months ,and one female then gets attached is never going to work.
Put all the women who look like Rosie o donnell in the unit and that should take care of the problem....