Posted on 05/14/2017 3:45:35 PM PDT by BJ1
I hear the same story, told in different ways, all over New York City. There’s 34-year-old Kate, who works in finance downtown. “She’s beautiful, smart, talented . . . everything going for her,” her colleague tells me. “But her boyfriend doesn’t feel settled in his career, so she spent thousands of dollars to freeze her eggs as she waits for him to be ready.
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Amen! Time to move on. You are a booty call, nothing more, if he won’t put a ring on it.
The feminine imperative at work again.
Blaming men for their own hypergamous behavior.
They screw around during their hot young years with the hot alpha guys they never intend to have kids with because they are just orgasm funboy toys for them, and waste their best childbearing years.
When men are older and their sexual market value is peaking while the womans is waning, then the women bemoan men looking at hot younger women and the guilt shaming begins to try to keep the man cucked in line.
It is because society pushes and reinforces the feminine imperative sexual strategy of hypergamy. Everywhere. Family courts, government, business, medicine, welfare, assistance programs, shelters.
yes, from the crystallization
Different points along their hypergamy sexual strategy life.
Most modern american women wont put their husbands needs before theirs. If a guy can sense this he may wonder if she will place the childs before hers. And if she does, now hes third in line, if he ever was in line to begin with.
Her comments are exactly what one would expect from a 34 year old woman. Read The Rational Male: Preventative Medicine.
She is a textbook case.
Worked out great for me so far.... 17 plus years
She is 34 and knows she cant compete for hot young alpha males like she used to and have meaningless casual sex as bfore. When they all realize ths shift, they shift from party girl to looking for a clueless compromising “nice” beta guy who will be a good provider father who will overlook their former sluttiness now because the womans priorities have changed. He will never get the best sex she could offer because the alphas got her in her wild phase and he will be cheated out of her best.
But yet society allows her to if she wants.
Men do not have the same right.
If men had the rights women have the women would be extremely pissed off.
“You deserve the best”. “You deserve it all.” “You can do anything you want.”
Women believe this and are told this all the time by lots of different sources.
They are little godesses and if something is wrong it damn sure is not because of anything they did or didn’t do. That is the societal bent and its time to smash the pedestals.
Kate is trying to guilt shame him into doing something not in his best interest.
Do you feel good guilt shaming someone to do something you want? Do you really think that is a good basis for a male-female relationship to be built on?
If Kate thouht she could do better she would dump his can and nobody would look at her and say how childish or how selfish of her to leave him.
The whole “everything is whatever the woman wants it to be, and she can change her mind anytime” bs has gotten really, really tiresome.
Preach it, Brother!
That dude better make sure his condoms havent been poked a bunch of times with needles.
And men like your dad still got screwed over by women too.
For the feminine imperative sexual strategy of hypegamy to work, it has to take away from the male sexual strategy.
That is what you see everywhere in society today. Courts, govt, religion, politics, welfare, business, all levels of education.
The more men understand what is going on, the better thy can be in control of their own destinies. And doing what they want to do rather than what someone else demands them to do,
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