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Single, childless and nearing 40, I saw one real option
CNN ^ | 04/25/2017 | Sarah Lenti

Posted on 04/26/2017 6:18:53 AM PDT by BJ1

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To: Yaelle

Often you can give good advice but with testosterone/mating instinct raging it falls on deaf ears.


261 posted on 04/26/2017 10:13:25 AM PDT by JayGalt
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To: gogeo

These are not simple problems.


262 posted on 04/26/2017 10:14:47 AM PDT by JayGalt
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To: Dilbert San Diego
Life is toughn for women, if women want to launch professional careers and get married and have children in their 20s. Many people graduate from college at 21 or 22 or 23. Then they may get a career path going. But within 4 or 5 years, the woman may find d she has to make some life choices as to where she goes from there.

She's a serial dater and still resents the guy that dumped her back when she was 30.

And so I began my search with a focus on the physical attributes that I have always been attracted to -- namely height and athleticism. Six-foot-2 and toned was my baseline.

The donor was a collegiate lacrosse athlete. I was able to see three pictures, from tot to teen, of an adorable boy with an incredible smile, unruly hair and a twinkle in his eyes.

Even at 40, she never stopped being 14, there wasn't a man available that could live up to her standards so she went for a turkey baster.

263 posted on 04/26/2017 10:19:02 AM PDT by Snickering Hound
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To: gogeo

Well, it used to be hot looking teachers who taught them. Now that’s outlawed.


264 posted on 04/26/2017 10:20:45 AM PDT by miss marmelstein
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To: Yaelle

Very wise.


265 posted on 04/26/2017 10:20:49 AM PDT by gogeo (When your life is based on a false premise...you are indeed insane.)
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To: Yaelle

You sound like a lawyer. Did I need to post all the caveats? Guess what, when talking about human populations it’s OK to generalize. Everybody knows there are exceptions to the rule.


266 posted on 04/26/2017 10:30:01 AM PDT by Varda
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To: JayGalt

...and the congregation said, “Amen!”


267 posted on 04/26/2017 10:30:36 AM PDT by gogeo (When your life is based on a false premise...you are indeed insane.)
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To: miss marmelstein
Now that’s outlawed.

Hopefully so. I don't know if it ever was legal, and whether it's more prevalent or sensationalist reporting has made it seem so.

If we're supporting less, not more pre-marital sex, it follows both partners will be less "experienced."

I believe (in all areas of life) that the fairer sex can exercise far more control (if delivered with a light touch) than most realize.

268 posted on 04/26/2017 10:37:47 AM PDT by gogeo (When your life is based on a false premise...you are indeed insane.)
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To: Red Badger

My Father died when I was 14, just when I needed him to show the way to adulthood.

Ma was a strong woman, to say the least and did her best, but a boy needs a father to show him the way to manhood.


269 posted on 04/26/2017 10:39:51 AM PDT by Little Bill (VN 65 - 68)
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To: miss marmelstein
I went through my genealogy back about 500 years. Most women married at 18 +/-, men at 20 or 22, until recently.

What caused the Change?

270 posted on 04/26/2017 10:49:37 AM PDT by Little Bill (VN 65 - 68)
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To: JayGalt
Good catch. Your observation is exactly right, which shows the limits of proving things with charts.

If you define fertility as plain biological "ability to natural conceive, carry and bear a baby, barring deliberate surgical enhancement or impairment" you'll have one set of numbers; if you define it sociologically as "number of women actually giving birth per thousand," you'll get a different set of numbers.

As I understand it, well more than half of American women ages 35-44 have been sterilized; another 15% in that age group rely on the sterilization of their partners.

That should not be treated statistically as if it were natural infertility.

271 posted on 04/26/2017 10:54:59 AM PDT by Mrs. Don-o ("With my luck, if I were a politician I would be an honest man." - Rodney Dangerfield)
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To: SarahPalin2012

“It only matters what He thinks. And He happens to disagree with you.”

So now you speak for God too? You’re claiming to be a prophet?


272 posted on 04/26/2017 10:55:54 AM PDT by Boogieman
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To: SarahPalin2012

Right, so what men do is mens’ fault, and what women do is mens’ fault, and we can’t hold you responsible for such a stupid opinion, because your opinion is God’s fault.

Got it.


273 posted on 04/26/2017 10:58:53 AM PDT by Boogieman
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To: Nea Wood

:). Thanks for the positive comment. Each one of our children are a treasure to us, we would have been thrilled to have more but that wasn’t God’s plan for us.


274 posted on 04/26/2017 11:04:41 AM PDT by NorthstarMom
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To: All

To a guy who married young and was abandoned with a child after doing everything possible to support said marriage, most of you people are very discouraging and disheartening to listen to.

Perhaps having resigned to my current circumstances isn’t helping, but it’s hard to see any reason to continue to hope with the comments, reviews, and indictments in this thread and others recently.


275 posted on 04/26/2017 11:12:34 AM PDT by Big Giant Air Head (Why do we labour for those who detest us for it?)
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To: Yaelle

Sperm quality has also declined overtime, due to such factors, as well.


276 posted on 04/26/2017 12:02:30 PM PDT by baltimorepoet
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To: baltimorepoet
Nature didn’t intend for women to have babies at age 38.

Women in my family have had babies well into their 40s, all of whom turned out great. It's our culture -- marry late, have children late, and every one will be greatly anticipated and deeply longed for. It's called "Irish birth control."

277 posted on 04/26/2017 12:50:14 PM PDT by Albion Wilde ("We will be one people, under one God, saluting one American flag." --Donald Trump)
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To: BJ1

I think it’s sad. Kids need a married mother and father loving and taking care of them. There is so much they miss out on not having one or the other.


278 posted on 04/26/2017 12:52:05 PM PDT by Trillian
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To: wardaddy

>>>Why on earth would a woman eff strangers over and over they just met

And then wonder why unhappy

I have watched this unhappy and childless thing late 30s since the early 80s in Manhattan<<<

I have no idea. As a man I think doing the same is repulsive. Maybe somebody else can tell us why women do this.


279 posted on 04/26/2017 12:54:20 PM PDT by BJ1
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To: BJ1

Speaking from experience, I can tell you there is little more abusive than being the child of a single “Goldilocks.”


280 posted on 04/26/2017 12:59:52 PM PDT by papertyger (The semantics define how we think.)
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