Posted on 11/28/2016 10:34:54 AM PST by JamesP81
Just say NO to Charismatic churches. They are based on nothing but emotion & fakery.
My mother joined a Pentecostal church over 20 years ago & I curse the day she found that church. Being Pentecostal has changed her from a fun-loving woman to a bitter, angry, judgemenal, irrational, holier-than-thou individual.
Her church is mostly a social club, complete with the loud rock-style band & colorful lights. No tradition or reverence whatsoever.
Pentecostalism consists of emotion & hysteria, not truth. Churches aren’t supposed to be “loud”.
Divorce is always and forever the last answer in any marriage. I always have said I do not believe in divorce. If I had to live on the West Coast with my wife living on the East Coast, that is what I would do.
Now, coming up on forty three years with the infirmities of aging, all of our parents dead, our daughter and her family halfway across the country, I am ever more certain of my convictions.
Demonic is right.
God hates divorce and divorce is not the answer in God’s economy.
That, along with the abusive solution for manipulating women, shows beyond the shadow of a doubt that this crap that he’s advocating is demonic as all get out.
Right from the pit of hell.
You are one alright.
I supposethat there is a first time for everything.
Heartbreaking,sometimes a Soul changes their mind.Keep in mind Our Father knows everything and sometimes we have to swallow a bitter pill to get to where we need to be.Respect Her decision and move on.I will pray a rosary for you tomorrow.
I learned Divorce Rape by experience. I do not want to control any woman , nor do I want a woman controlling me. My now deceased wife live happily together for 34 years without either trying to control the other. She had her thing. I had my thing. We had our thing. We each went out of our way to please the other.If she had tried to control me, I would have left. If I had tried to control her, she would have walked. Slaves and animals are controlled, not equals.
Yeah. I am arrogant.
Don’t worry about me, I am not buying into it. I think I got the answer to my question early on. I know now where that person is coming from, and I don’t agree with or endorse it.
There are plenty of places in life where we are going to be forced into an adversarial relationships filled with anger and manipulation, but if that is what you think love is, then you are lost.
I like what I have in love. It isn’t perfect, but anyone who thinks it is going to be perfect is deluding themselves. I prefer a two-way street based on mutual respect, and that isn’t what that poster is selling.
I didn’t see the point in coming on a thread like this, to preach that. But it is Jim Robinson’s forum, not mine, and he makes the rules, so I abide by them.
GAME over.
Thank goodness. What a waste of electrons.
Thank you!
She sounds depressed. She needs a counselor - a Christian one if possible.
It’s a phase but one that has to be handled by a professional. You can’t fix it beyond telling her you are sorry she is so unhappy and that things will be better. (this, too, shall pass). Pray for her. When she says she has no friends - tell her she has you and you are the best friend she could ever want. Tell her there is no reason she should not have friends except she’s so unhappy right now (depressed). When she cuts herself down, you tell her something beautiful about herself. You are her supporter.
At times like this in life it’s like the devil has you by the head. He’s probably telling her she’s unworthy; nagging the you know what out of her about herself. She has to step back and see and reject the negative ‘self talk’. Get behind me Satan in the name of Jesus! She should confess all sins and errors to Jesus that is thrown in her face. Once she does, it’s forgiven and off of her.
I will be praying for her and you.
Prayers for you, your wife, your church and friends. May His will be done.
I am going to leave that with you. I remember when men were men and women were women and they did not need a Frankfort school.
It’s a spiritual war.
Put God first. Find refuge in Him, in His Word.
Wife needs to put God first. Find refuge in Him, in His Word.
Church is being tested, as are you two.
My prayers up for all.
As Paul wrote to the Church in Ephesus, to put on their whole armor of God:
Last of all I want to remind you that your strength must come from the Lords mighty power within you. Put on all of Gods armor so that you will be able to stand safe against all strategies and tricks of Satan. For we are not fighting against people made of flesh and blood, but against persons without bodies the evil rulers of the unseen world, those mighty satanic beings and great evil princes of darkness who rule this world; and against huge numbers of wicked spirits in the spirit world
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