Well then, if you accept that, then be like Grandma Fontaine in Gone With The Wind: use him and then when you no longer need him kick him aside because trash clings to your heels.
But Americans have a habit of clinging to their trash, sadly.
78 posted on 09/14/2016 5:35:50 PM PDT by miss marmelstein
(Richard the Third: With my own people alone I should like to drive away the Muslims)