That’s the trouble, though. There are a lot of women who are more masculine looking, or just plain-plain out there, but are also very straight. And there are many attractive, very feminine, ‘pink’ lesbians as well.
So, as I originally wrote, unless they are wearing a t-shirt proclaiming they are a lesbian, or tell you outright, directly or indirectly (like mentioning their “girlfriend”), most people wouldn’t know.
The same problem exists with homosexual men, many of whom are burly blue-collar type guys, very different from the stereotypical ‘pink’ homosexuals.
In any event, back to the original story, how could the customers there tell beyond a reasonable doubt that she was a lesbian?
In any event, back to the original story, how could the customers there tell beyond a reasonable doubt that she was a lesbian?
I just disagree
I can tell a dyke normally without being told same as I can a homosexual man
Now a straight girl who like girls too is harder to peg
There are no truly bisexual men any more than true hermaphrodites
The women I've known in my life....a few...who looked normal and were pink as you say and were 100% lesbian had always without fail been abused and lost their ability to relate or feel safe with men sexually and found refuge in women even though ironically that is not stats wise safer
I have an 80 year old aunt who was abused as a girl and has polio since teens. She's been in a partnership with her girlfriend who's more masculine since the late 50s
I'm quite found of them and they have always kept it on the very down low....church going country women who have never shouted to be married but the more masculine partner you can tell but neither advertises
I've watched lib specials on lesbians...that freak show Polyamory on Shiwtime I think...what's the first thing lesbians seem to reach for in sex?.....a penetrating device....they crave coitus but they don't want men...I find that so tellingly
Where I think queer nation goes off the rails is allowing sexuality to be their identifier plus I rarely meet a man who is a homosexual who isn't neurotic as well
Lesbians....not so much neurotic but damaged and hurt whether by men or nature
Women are based so much on looks from time immemorial and are so emotional by nature and to be homely and feel that as a child is so painful ..,a man can make for that but a women either wins the DNA lottery or not
when I was young unmarriable women became teachers usually or career govt workers...now they become lesbians too