Obviously you are suppressing and oppressing her and she’s too scared to tell the truth in this highly patriarchal tyranny. She needs to be rescued, deprogrammed, and re-educated so she can find her voice and be empowered. /s
LOL, I would like to see someone try.
Don’t get her started on talking about China either. Her father fought the Japanese and Chinese Communists. Her parents were the only family members to escape to Taiwan.
The other family members were all tortured and either killed or sent to the interior to live in poverty. They were made an example of because they were wealthy and educated.
I have heard many stories about the civil war in China.
Does that make her and her family racists toward Chinese?