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The Dating Struggles Of Being An Alpha Female
The Bolde ^ | October 12, 2015 | Andrea Wesley

Posted on 11/02/2015 8:20:05 AM PST by C19fan

eing an alpha female is, for the most part, pretty awesome. I know this because I am one. We’re wildly independent, ferociously driven and we favor passion over tender romanticizing. We’re also incredibly stubborn, hard-headed, opinionated, and can be intimidating or misjudged by men. This makes our dating lives more of a challenge to navigate. We’re not your typical submissive and doting partners, we’re a challenge. For this reason, finding a man who can handle and understand the traits we carry is much harder. These are the real struggles of being an alpha female in the dating world.

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TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: alphafemale; crazybroads; dating; goddess; hottie; pua; redpill; trp
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To: C19fan

Let’s not forget that they also fill an Affirmative Action slot that a more qualified White Man never would.

Ladies, It is generally difficult to get pregnant after 35, it is very difficult to get pregnant after forty and all but impossible after 45. Yet, so many of today’s ‘successful’ women end up alone and frustrated at 50 with two abortions no men and a fantastic career in mid level nothingness at the very prominent Nothing Special, Inc.


41 posted on 11/02/2015 8:36:20 AM PST by Jim from C-Town (The government is rarely benevolent, often malevolent and never benign!)
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To: CptnObvious
Brave New World - isn't it?

Well, the author and the drips she's writing for (read the comments at the link ... very sad) apparently think so.

The truth, however, is that "There is nothing new under the sun." Societies have been plagued with self-obsessed "alpha women" before, and will be again, no doubt.

42 posted on 11/02/2015 8:36:57 AM PST by Finny (Voting "against" is a wish. Be ready to own what you vote for.)
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To: JPX2011

Almost as good as a post graduate in ‘Womyns’ Studies’ at Oberlin.


43 posted on 11/02/2015 8:38:15 AM PST by Jim from C-Town (The government is rarely benevolent, often malevolent and never benign!)
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To: C19fan
What ever man needs to know about dating:

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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XuI6GTY9eVc

44 posted on 11/02/2015 8:39:24 AM PST by amorphous
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To: C19fan

If you have to tell people that you’re an alpha female, then you aren’t an alpha female.


45 posted on 11/02/2015 8:39:52 AM PST by JoeDetweiler
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To: C19fan

She’s very conflicted. She is whiny and afraid. She doesn’t understand Alpha.


46 posted on 11/02/2015 8:40:41 AM PST by Sgt_Schultze (If a border fence isn't effective, why is there a border fence around the White House?)
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To: Dilbert San Diego

I am sure there are plenty of men who give her what she wants when she wants it until they find out that she is a ball breaking pain in the A$$ and every man will tell you there isn’t a woman alive who is worth that kind of hassle.


47 posted on 11/02/2015 8:40:49 AM PST by Jim from C-Town (The government is rarely benevolent, often malevolent and never benign!)
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To: C19fan

I don’t have trouble with any of this. However, I had a table-mate in medical school who claimed to be this way but called in sick with menstrual cramps whenever we had a tough lab assignment. Ya never know...


48 posted on 11/02/2015 8:41:04 AM PST by JusPasenThru (but if not...)
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To: C19fan
"Culture Jamming" summed it up best:

We're miserable, but will spend endless chats with other likeminded women to convince ourselves otherwises [sic]. Even goto [sic] the length of writing self affirming blog posts to overcompensate and fuel the illusion of being complete, when anything but.

49 posted on 11/02/2015 8:41:26 AM PST by martin_fierro (< |:)~)
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To: C19fan

An alpha female can still be a lady and be attracted to a strong man, and let him fulfill his role in a relationship if she is willing allow him to do it.

Otherwise, she’s just a self-centered bitch; and a man she thinks she is entitled to simply wouldn’t put up with her shit.

Anyone think she is more of an alpha female than Sarah Palin and it appears to me that she lets and wants Todd to be the MAN in her life.


50 posted on 11/02/2015 8:41:34 AM PST by SeaHawkFan
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To: Gamecock

I'd tie it up with Duct Tape, put it in the basement, and hit it from time to time.

51 posted on 11/02/2015 8:42:03 AM PST by Lazamataz (Ok. We won't call them 'Anchor Babies'. From now on, we shall call them 'Fetal Grappling Hooks'.)
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To: palmer

I would not inflict that crazed female on those poor innocent kittens.

Send them to my barn. Let them eat mice. They’ll like it.


52 posted on 11/02/2015 8:42:18 AM PST by NorthMountain ("The time has come", the Walrus said, "to talk of many things")
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To: FunkyZero
Good point!!

For what it's worth, I have often highly enjoyed the sheer shock on the faces of liberal "alpha women" at parties and such where, if my husband asks me to do some little thing, I respond with a timid, cowering "Yes, master! Right away, master!"

Any men and well-balanced females who are present always laugh at the joke, while the liberal gals have horrified faces, clearly they don't think it's very damned funny. It really is a hoot, and I've seen it many times.

They don't know that when we get home, my husband very obsequiously answers, "Yes, precious! Whatever you say, precious!" to my every command!! {^)

53 posted on 11/02/2015 8:42:25 AM PST by Finny (Voting "against" is a wish. Be ready to own what you vote for.)
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To: Lazamataz

I’ll bet she is a good < expletive deleted >


54 posted on 11/02/2015 8:43:03 AM PST by central_va (I won't be reconstructed and I do not give a damn.)
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To: JPX2011

You got a laugh out of me. FWIW, I don’t have an issue with alpha females. I enjoy the hell out of them.


55 posted on 11/02/2015 8:43:06 AM PST by meatloaf
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To: C19fan

Sounds like Carney Taggart and the woman that created her.


56 posted on 11/02/2015 8:43:29 AM PST by cuban leaf (The US will not survive the obama presidency. The world may not either.)
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To: C19fan
"Can someone deliver her a cat lady starting kit."

I think she's already working on that:

"even though she hasn't found "the one" yet, she keeps entertained by her friends, family and crazy ginger tabby, Jagger"

57 posted on 11/02/2015 8:45:06 AM PST by Boogieman
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To: JPX2011

JPX.... Your response is satire isn’t it? (I hope)


58 posted on 11/02/2015 8:45:48 AM PST by willibeaux (de ole Korean War vet age 85)
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To: Lx
...at least I have a husband.

Surely you can't be serious.

59 posted on 11/02/2015 8:45:58 AM PST by dfwgator
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To: Finny

I’ve dated a couple of chicks that would fit the authors self description, however they considered themselves “rebels”. I came away seeing them a contentious and more trouble than they were worth.


60 posted on 11/02/2015 8:46:52 AM PST by PhiloBedo (You gotta roll with the punches and get with what's real.)
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