That’s normal.
No, that is NOT normal. If you can’t tell the difference between a teen girl and a woman you’ve got issues!
Of course you can tell the age difference. That’s not the point.
Look, I’m a woman. From the time I was 14 men made passes at me, cat called me, harassed me, tried to pick me up. Not because I dressed or acted provocatively. Just because I was young and pretty and had breasts. They were jerks; I hated it, but they were normal jerks. Some of them were polite enough about it that I guess they weren’t jerks.
When I was 18 I met the man who is now my husband - that helped with the men who knew me, but not the others.
When I was 24 I started taking karate and got something of a “do not mess with me” attitude. That helped some more.
When I was 26 I had a baby which pretty much put me on the “leave alone” list. Yes, I lost the baby weight.
From the age of 14, until I was pregnant or had a baby in my arms - that
was when men were after me the most - when I was young and nubile and not knocked up by some other guy. You may not like it but that’s how it was.
If you are a man, and never hassled a teenage girl, even when you were a teenager, thank you.
But if you thought a 15 y.o. girl was sexy and beautiful when you were 12, or 15, or 18, why should you stop thinking that when you are 25? She is still sexy and beautiful; she is just the wrong age for you.
Now my daughters are that age, the younger just beginning to be a woman.. They and their classmates are very fresh and beautiful. I get the attraction. The wrong is in acting on it.