Most of the time, it shouldn’t even be an issue.
That’s true, and she didn’t say she put his needs ahead of young children’s needs, but that she put him first, loved him more. That’s as it should be. I always shudder when I see a woman loving her kids more, putting their whims ahead of her husband. eeeek
If we ever manage to wind our way through the paperwork we will be parents someday.
But as much as we will love them, our marriage came first and will last long past the time they have left the nest.